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lately i cant get myself into a relationship on da basis that i am 2 scary n i have no idea y like im judged so quickly before any1 really knows me n once they do they realize how smart, caring n sensitve i really am. how can i end this fear thing that i cant stop
 

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I don't know what you mean when you say you are scary but if chicks are afraid of you then you must have some serious problems.
 

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iamsickofyear12 said:
I don't know what you mean when you say you are scary but if chicks are afraid of you then you must have some serious problems.
thanks thats nice, nah seriously they like assume things about me before even like knowing me properly.thats wat my friends always say about me im judged too quickly. it damages confidence :( meh oh well
 

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Everyone is judged at first/initial glance.

Change your appearence or the way you approach people if you desire to be percieved in a other way.
 

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I don't really know you, but i'm going to assume that you've been walking around brandishing a rusted and bloody knife and if that's the case then leave it at home and see if your situation improves.
 

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well i'm not one of your good-looking guys. thats why i get judged and over-looke very quickly. however, i have been todl that i have an infectiuous personality. i don't know whether this is true or anything. i will assume and hope it is so. maybe you should try to put yourself in a girl's shoes and then work from there, with advice from girls that you know.
 

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i dunno how to help you but some people are just born creepy and thats the first impression that ppl immediately have of creepy people. Maybe thats who you are and you need to accept it and just find other ways of getting to know people, that is if you can talk to them long enough before they start crying out of fear
 

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I'd recommend going out to a party or pub with these people and get shitfaced and open up. Let them see the real you instead of hiding everything away.

Are you a quiet type that keeps the themselves?
 

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Nah pubs are for stupid people. Libraries is where it's at.
I think you're being sarcastic, but I kinda agree. Go to these places that have heaps of girsl and get phone numbers.
 

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Lexicographer said:
Nah pubs are for stupid people. Libraries is where it's at.
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unfortunately its true...well, depends on your library, but most major ones in sydney do the trick...its a shock
 

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jumb said:
I think you're being sarcastic, but I kinda agree. Go to these places that have heaps of girsl and get phone numbers.
yeh library chicks are the new thing. you have a choice of the heinas or the hippos.
 

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You shouldn't have to change who you are, just be yourself. Go hang out in the library (^-^)

Good luck !
 

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