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Master Yoda said:
im pretty sure there r only AVOs
Apprehended Personal Violence Orders (APVO)

If you know the perpetrator and you fear for your safety you can apply for an Apprehended Personal Violence Order (APVO). APVOs are court orders designed to protect you from physical assault, stalking, harassment, intimidation or damage to property. It is possible to get an APVO to protect you from a range of people including neighbours and colleagues. If the perpetrator is a partner, ex-partner, family member or flatmate the order you will be given will be called an Apprehended Violence Order (AVO). In other respects the AVO is the same as an APVO.

APVOs can be tailor made to suit the situation. They can include restrictions so that the perpetrator doesn’t come to your home or work, can’t call you and so on. Others people, like your partner, friends or family members, may be added to the order too if it is believed that they need protection. The order does not give the defendant a criminal record unless they breach it. Breaching and APVO or AVO can result in the perpetrator being fined or jailed.

To get an APVO you should contact the police or your local court to make an appointment to see the chamber magistrate who can initiate an APVO. This is called an interim (temporary) APVO and is not effective until it is served (given to) the defendant.

The matter will be a given a date before the court (a mention date). At that time, the defendant will need to tell the court whether s/he will agree to the conditions of the APVO or whether s/he intends to contest them. If s/he agrees the order will be made final on that day. If s/he doesn’t agree to the conditions the matter will be set down for a hearing on another day. The interim APVO will stay in place until the hearing. At the hearing, the final APVO will be made if he magistrate is satisfied that you have reasonable grounds to fear the defendant.

Two important points to remember about APVO. First, even if you invite the perpetrator to breach the conditions of the order it is still illegal. For example, if an APVO says the perpetrator can’t come to your house they are still breaking the law even if you invite them in. Second, if you have an APVO out against someone and they breach it you should call the police immediately and let them know the APVO is being breached.

For more detailed information about APVOs

www.lawlink.nsw.gov.au/lac.nsf/pages/avoapply or
www.police.nsw.gov.au/prevention/detail.cfm?ObjectID=128&SectionID=family
 
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MaryJane said:
Oh, I totally agree, but with the (apparent) high rates of internet dating rapes, who can you trust in this dangerous world?

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so, what are the rates?
 

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I was being sarcastic; the link between internet dating and rape is no doubt miniscule.
 

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you can meet someone online, but i wouldnt be able to maintain a relationship with someone who i had never met or spent time with.
that would be strange.
 

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I dont get the internet dating sites though.. No one is trully that desperate right? And if so, why dont they pick up a new hobby or something?

I just dont see the need to intentionally look for a partner on the net. Its fine for chatting to people/making friends and if you meet up and it eventually goes further well.. Good for you. But to actually go solely for the purpose of meeting someone on the net, not meeting up, etc it seems really really weird/bizarre/freakish
 

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there ARE married couples who met over the net

funny tho

"hey mum, how did you meet dad?"

"we met on the internet"

"how romantic!"
 
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yeah my dad met my stepmum over the internet....they have been happily married for 3 years now.

dad got an email one day and the subject was "next year in paris" which was my stepmums nickname....dad thought it was junk mail and didn't touch it for about 4/5 months......then one day i guess he just opened it and the rest is history.

my stepmum wasn't desperate to resort to the internet, she was just so busy at work and never found the time to go out and socialise. So they aren't all desperate on the internet. People find it as a time saver to meet people.
 

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ur_inner_child said:
there ARE married couples who met over the net

funny tho

"hey mum, how did you meet dad?"

"we met on the internet"

"how romantic!"
Haha the kids of the future are going to be whack anyways.. They probably will think the internet is a romantic place.

I still maintain its weird. But then again, alot of things in this world are.
 

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My cousin has been going out with this guy she met on the net. Total dick.

He jokes about me meeting girls on the internet and how lame that would be. :rolleyes:
 

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