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[aimstar555]

bf's and their "secret stash"...

ok this thread's mainly for the ladies that have bf's, but i want guy's opinions as well...
i stayed over at my bf's house last night and he left early for work. everyone else had gone and when i was getting ready to go, i dropped my bag and most of my stuff fell out and went under his bed.
which is when i discovered a massive plastic container full of comics, about 7-10 FHM magazines and an old porno (which i know is not his)
it didn't really bother me so much, cause i'm "sort of" glad he reads others male material instead of the stockmarket/ boring newspapers.
but are there ne other ladies that KNOW their man watches/reads porn? how do ya feel bout it?
guys, do u care if SHE knows??

 

[pinkblinkbarbie]

yeah i found my boyfriends stash on our first date when we werent a couple yet, hehe.
he has an old video that him and his mates borrowed from someone who then moved to queensland and they "forgot" to give it back. he has a dvd which he got while we have been together, and about 8 magazines....he had like 15 except when he moved out of his room a few months ago he threw some of them out.
i dont care either. i know he watches the dvd every now and again and so he should, i dont expect him to just get off with me during sex etc. i say good on him for still keeping and using his stash.

 

[um..]

past girlfriends i've had have been horrified at the prospect of me looking at pornography
"i should be enough for you!"

 

[Ranger Stacie]

ok this thread's mainly for the ladies that have bf's, but i want guy's opinions as well...
i stayed over at my bf's house last night and he left early for work. everyone else had gone and when i was getting ready to go, i dropped my bag and most of my stuff fell out and went under his bed.
which is when i discovered a massive plastic container full of comics, about 7-10 FHM magazines and an old porno (which i know is not his)
it didn't really bother me so much, cause i'm "sort of" glad he reads others male material instead of the stockmarket/ boring newspapers.
but are there ne other ladies that KNOW their man watches/reads porn? how do ya feel bout it?
guys, do u care if SHE knows??

i dont really care as long as its not paris hilton. my ex is in love with paris hilton, he could at least choose someone whose not ugly

 

[um..]

like nicky?

 

[katietheskatie]

i wouldn't really care if it was just like ralph or whatever, but if i found really strange fetish porn on his computer or something, i'd probably be seriously questioning if he's the kind of person i'd want to be in a relationship with.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

i wouldn't really care if it was just like ralph or whatever, but if i found really strange fetish porn on his computer or something, i'd probably be seriously questioning if he's the kind of person i'd want to be in a relationship with.

Strange fetish porn is a bit different though. If its just regular porn then they are just a normal guy. If it's strange fetish porn it means they are screwed up.

 

[katietheskatie]

exactly, that's why i'd be questioning myself as to whether i'd really want to be with him if he's into that.

 

[Grobus]

Magazine porn?

Everyone knows to look on peoples computers for porn stashes.

 

[jumb]

Guys are guys. We like seeing naked girls. Whats the problem?

 

[Arvin Sloane]

...i dropped my bag and most of my stuff fell out and went under his bed.

Liar, liar, pants on fire.

 

[glycerine]

i don't care about any guy i date looking at porn unless it involves kids, animals, or midgets.

i hate girls who go "oh, i should be enough for him! wahhh!" because it's so not about that unless he's like watching a tape he made with an ex or some shit.

 

[_muse_]

pff my boyf downloads porn.. i dont care.. i TELL him to download it.. at least then he can look at someone thats pretty, unlike me.

 

[Skeeta]

my b/fs isnt "stashed" it sits on his desk.. in the middle of the room - for everyone to see! (theres one or 2 porno mags which are "stashed" but hes got that RALF and FHM crud everywhere!)

i dont care if he reads it or looks at it.

I was a bit more disturbed however when i went to turn the TV in his room on and there was the Paris Hilton in his DVD player.

And the life size cutout of britney spears in a cut-out... well i didnt particulary want her looking over me as i slept so she is under the bed atm.

 

[Arvin Sloane]

...at least then he can look at someone thats pretty, unlike me.

Darn right.

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[SKA]

hahah i think its funny, i laugh at him and i try and make him feel embarrassed about it but he never doesget embarrassed... hes got everything and i dont give a shit as long as i dont hear him say 'oh this porn is better than you' in a seirous tone

 

[crazyhomo]

i don't care about any guy i date looking at porn unless it involves kids, animals, or midgets.

i hate girls who go "oh, i should be enough for him! wahhh!" because it's so not about that unless he's like watching a tape he made with an ex or some shit.

yeah, but no one likes midget porn

 

[spin spin sugar]

depends on the situation, a friend of mine once found all this porn on her bfs comp and they hadnt been sleeping with each other cos he'd been wanking over it THAT much he just could bring himself to put in the effort to actually have sex... i would say thats a little too much porn for a guy. it led to them breaking up. who wants to go out with a guy who'd rather blow his load over a picture on a computer screen than actually do something with another person? yuerrghh.

but if its just moderate, then of course its totally cool.

 

[^CoSMic DoRiS^^]

as long as its not about anything really weird, like animal porn, i dont care. we all KNOW they use it, so not much point getting upset over it. it doesnt necessarily mean ur bf doesnt love u enuf or anything, he just happens to like porn, and lets face it, what guy doesnt?

but if its sumthing completely creepy or overly kinky and strange, then u should worry. specially if thats the only type of porno he looks at.

 

[thejosiekiller]

how many ppl actually think guys have animal porn? seriously...if u have met a guy who has animal porn then u rnt the best judge of potential bfs