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Life without lust? Life without utmost passion for the person you're in love with....

uh no. Can't do it.

Lust for a random in a porno I think I can do without though. So bite me.
 

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I dont really care that my ex has porns, but i do mind that he has over 1,000 and he wanted me to learn from it and it makes me feel very bad.
 

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SilveryNightsky said:
Life without lust? Life without utmost passion for the person you're in love with....

uh no. Can't do it.

Lust for a random in a porno I think I can do without though. So bite me.
Did you even read what I even wrote? And why get pissed off?

Grow a dick then you'll understand.
 
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JoeysBoy said:
Did you even read what I even wrote? And why get pissed off?

Grow a dick then you'll understand.
mmm, wasn't actually talking TO you, but hey. I wasn't pissed off? not the slightest bit. It was said in a lighthearted way.

I'm not against porn or anything. I just don't think it works on me.
 

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My experience runs that in general terms men think about sex more regularly and in general want it more. A man for instance will only very rarely turn down sex.

Another thing backing this sort of statement up is the overwhelming majority of the users of 'adult' internet dating sites being men.
 

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porn, porn porn

okay gals...all i can say is : WAKE UP!
i cant believe you girls are carrying on and whingeing about guys watching porn! that is pathetic, and you know wat else... it just strengthens the argument that girls are whinging bitches who dont let their bfs do anything for themselves!

grow up!

i dont care that my bf looks at porn, ive watched a porno with him and actually found it good for ideas and stuff, and also because id never really seen that sorta stuff before, it made the whole sexual experience alot better.

gals should think about wat they would rather: their guys watching pornos to relieve themselves or going next door to that blonde in the mini skirt and having sex with her to releive themselves.... for god sake gals get over it!
 

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Porn is such a useful instructive device. Where else would one learn the techniques for effective clitoral stimulation, diverse copulation positions, erotic ways for putting on condoms and how to act really, really, really badly.

Look - by viewing porn everyone's sexual experience is improved. Without porn to suggest interesting ideas we would still be going at it Amish-style, i.e. a three-minute missonary chore punctuated with grunts from the man who, after climaxing, promptly falls asleep leaving his partner to flick herself off alone in the cold orange glow of an almost enxtinguished candle.

Do you want to be like that Amish lass? Do you?

Of course not - let him watch his DVDs and look at his magazines. You should join in too - it can be a very enjoyable experience for both to look at porn, talk dirtly about it (pashing at the same time, of course) before leading up to a 'hands on' period once both your blood is hot, hot, hot and you can't restrain the passion any longer and your animal instincts erupt - your skin warm to touch, your nerves tingling, your mind focussed on one thing and your vocal cords straining under the pressure of your repeated shouts - YES! YES! Oh sweet mother of Jeebus YES!

Just a suggestion. It has worked for me :)
 

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Theres only so many times you can watch a chick having sex with 3 guys at once up against a wall in a back alley before you want to cry.
Its interesting how they usually only show the male genitals, so the guys, I guess, can pretend its them banging away at the chick, you rarely see faces.
 

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hipsta_jess said:
Theres only so many times you can watch a chick having sex with 3 guys at once up against a wall in a back alley before you want to cry.
Its interesting how they usually only show the male genitals, so the guys, I guess, can pretend its them banging away at the chick, you rarely see faces.
What porn have you been watching?
 

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Ranger Stacie said:
i dont see what is so good about porn anyway, it is all the same
I reckon....it's just all sex...it's not even special anymore because people don't see it as a way of expressing love for eachother....they say i love you while having sex with someone without even meaning it, that's just so bullshit...call me a whining bitch or whatever, but if my boyfriend looked at porn, not to learn something out of, but to just watch these sluts getting laid, then fuck that, what's the point of having a girlfriend if you wanna look at other chicks?
 

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aimstar555 said:
ok this thread's mainly for the ladies that have bf's, but i want guy's opinions as well...
i stayed over at my bf's house last night and he left early for work. everyone else had gone and when i was getting ready to go, i dropped my bag and most of my stuff fell out and went under his bed.
which is when i discovered a massive plastic container full of comics, about 7-10 FHM magazines and an old porno (which i know is not his)
it didn't really bother me so much, cause i'm "sort of" glad he reads others male material instead of the stockmarket/ boring newspapers.
but are there ne other ladies that KNOW their man watches/reads porn? how do ya feel bout it?
guys, do u care if SHE knows??

you're glad that he does not stay up to date on intellectual issues and our economy?
 

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sparkl3z said:
but to just watch these sluts getting laid, then fuck that, what's the point of having a girlfriend if you wanna look at other chicks?
Because they're hot.
 

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hipsta_jess said:
Its interesting how they usually only show the male genitals, so the guys, I guess, can pretend its them banging away at the chick, you rarely see faces.
I was just thinking that the other day too. In porn, its very likely that you only ever see a) the males genitals and b) part of the girls body and/or her face.

There is NO porn out there for straight girls which is really annoying. Theres gay porn for lesbians, gay porn for gays and lesbian porn for straight men, but where is the straight porn for straight girls?
 

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ujuphleg said:
I was just thinking that the other day too. In porn, its very likely that you only ever see a) the males genitals and b) part of the girls body and/or her face.

There is NO porn out there for straight girls which is really annoying. Theres gay porn for lesbians, gay porn for gays and lesbian porn for straight men, but where is the straight porn for straight girls?
Its called hollywood :(
 

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Yes there is porn for women. You'd probably look for porn under 'erotic' rather than 'hardcore', possibly even 'softcore'. If you're after something more about the tension, the emotion rather then the straight out penetration then it is most likely under 'erotic'. Try an adult store and ask the assistance. They should have some as those store, even though frequented by men, will cater for women's tastes, whatever they be, also. Not all men like straight to penetration as well.
 

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