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quickest way to get over a breakup? (1 Viewer)

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think of all the bad things he done to u... think of all the things u hate about him....

then...
go out with ur frends alot.. have fun.. and even though ur thoughts wont fully go away... it will help ease ur pain n then after a while u will soon move on :)
 

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wen i broke up with my gf i just went out with my friends alot, got with heaps of hot chicks at clubs n parties, did watever i wanted to do to get my mind off them. and get drunk alot :)
 
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NOTE: If you follow that advice you deserve to be depressed.
 

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It depends on how long you were together (if you want to get over it in a night I'm assuming not too long?) and if you're planning on staying "friends". The best revenge is maniacal happiness and enviable success. Understand you're hot, intelligent, strong, etc and are far too good to be bothered with him (it'll drive him mad). Just make sure you smile every time you see him and laugh a lot. Flirt! Flirting is good. And don't do anything embarassing or debasing - he'll expect that. Be really nice, friendly and in control of your emotions. You'll be wanted and you won't need anyone. The go home, get fucked up and kick a cat or something.
 

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Originally posted by super katie
haha im not depressed... i just want to stop crying. its a natural reaction but one thats beginning to piss me off immensely
I know how that feels :(
I got into the stage when I just got so sick of myself crying for a guy who's not worth crying for.

Don't worry, that stage will pass. and I hope that it has now for you.

I agree with Cayte- just smile in front of him. I know it's hard but never ever let yourself down in front of him. if you still feel up to it, will it make you feel better if you start bitching about him??

::hugz::
 
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Originally posted by cayte
It depends on how long you were together (if you want to get over it in a night I'm assuming not too long?) and if you're planning on staying "friends". The best revenge is maniacal happiness and enviable success. Understand you're hot, intelligent, strong, etc and are far too good to be bothered with him (it'll drive him mad). Just make sure you smile every time you see him and laugh a lot. Flirt! Flirting is good. And don't do anything embarassing or debasing - he'll expect that. Be really nice, friendly and in control of your emotions. You'll be wanted and you won't need anyone. The go home, get fucked up and kick a cat or something.
I think im going with this one, I have alot of pride and I dont want to do anything debasing, I like being in control. I love taking the moral high ground too, always fun.

Thankyou so much everyone, I appreciate all the help
 

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Yay I won!

*Feels validated - cat can breathe again*.
 
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Oh, it's so great, it's the best few months of your life, you really feel like a useful, productive, worthwhile sort of person. And your rational mind fully understands why you feel the way you do, because it's a rational emotional response and you are a completely rational person during this phase.
 

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*A la Homer J Simpson:* "In case you can't tell I'm being sarcastic!"
 

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Originally posted by truly-in-bliss
havent done the whole breakup/cry my heart out/cant get over thing.................i wonder how it feels................
you dont know what feeling like shit every second of ur life feels like.. not being able to concentrate... cry all day
?????

trust me ... u dont want to know
 

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