Relationships/Sex with Ex's (1 Viewer)

[Skillo]

Inspired by a cosmo article i read.

Is it the good, the bad or the ugly? Wrong or right or inbetween?


Have you done it? Did it stuff up everything you ever had or was it the best decision you've ever made? Was it a relationship or just sex?

Discuss.

(P.s., did a search, don't think a thread like this has been made b4, sorry if it has)

 

[bubz :D]

i got back with my first boyfriend briefly, years after we broke up... it was kinda natural. but the sex was terrible, he was much better when he was inexperienced!! anyway, it [the relationship] didn't last very long - we realised we were much better off as friends, and we're still close now

 

[wanton-wonton]

Inspired by a cosmo article i read.

Is it the good, the bad or the ugly? Wrong or right or inbetween?


Have you done it? Did it stuff up everything you ever had or was it the best decision you've ever made? Was it a relationship or just sex?

Discuss.

(P.s., did a search, don't think a thread like this has been made b4, sorry if it has)

Damn it, that is such a kickass film!

 

[alby]

never done it...wouldnt consider it with any of my ex's - as they say, they're ex's for a reason. if it was one i was really close to after we broke up, they i *might* consider it...but it'd probably be a bit awkward. there's always a reason you broke up with them, and generally time wont fix that reason/problem and it'll probably have fun healing the pain too

so my take on this: probably the bad and/or the ugly

 

[super katie]

Ok being a virgin, I obviously havent slept with any of my exes, but I kept hooking up with my most recent ex for months after we broke up. It ended badly because neither of us were able to reconcile our emotions with our actions. And I realised that, as alby said, "theyre exes for a reason"

 

[AsyLum]

In my case, its more a question of "would you like to catch stds?"

 

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its pretty easy for me to decide
if i hurt my right hand, i would have to go back to my left and there wont be any guilt feeling from both parties

 

[AlleyCat]

In my case, its more a question of "would you like to catch stds?"

hahah, yeah me too.

there are a few that i would like to get back together with, but the situations with them all are complicated.

i have slept with an ex before, and that was a big mistake. as soon as i woke up i rushed out of that place as fast as i could and we havent spoken since.

so i think maybe bad/ugly.

 

[MaryJane]

In my case, its more a question of "would you like to catch stds?"

I've never done it personally. To me, an ex is an ex for a reason.

 

[mmm_sofay]

i had sex with an ex.
he then proceeded to call me for the next 2 days after.
i ignored all the calls.
we now dont talk to each other. which is good, coz hes short.

 

[Lundy]

I got back into a relationship with an ex once. I broke it off again for the same reasons I broke it off the first time (i.e. distance). The only thing I regret about it is putting him through shit twice over. I learnt my lesson. We're still great friends and even have a marriage pact

I also slept with another ex once. It was just sex and I don't see a point in regretting it. That said, I wasn't into casual sex before that and haven't been since.

 

[Tuggi3]

i still sleep with my ex

it's messy, theres feelings involved and we try and pretend there isn't...

i wouldnt recommend it, and no i dont take my own advice

 

[grk_styl]

In my case, its more a question of "would you like to catch stds?"

haha mike! nice one

Is it the good, the bad or the ugly? Wrong or right or inbetween?


Have you done it? Did it stuff up everything you ever had or was it the best decision you've ever made? Was it a relationship or just sex?

i haven't done it. i don't know if I would do it - actually, I might, but that means i could potentially still have feelings for him, and that's a bad thing. so i'm avoiding it.
and if i did do it, it wouldn't be to get back together - it would be just for sex, coz I wouldn't trust him enough for a relationship.

 

[D_A]

the above poster's comment brings a question to my mind

is it wrong to get back with your ex just so you can have sex?

something that just crossed my mind.

 

[Nesty]

er.. i am having a fling with my ex atm.. which is just really messy.. feelings are messy.. everything is messy..

i personally thing it's not wrong as long as both of you know what you're doing.. like you wouldn't wan a relationship with each other and stuff.. i mean that's the reason you break up with your ex right? relationship not working..

 

[grk_styl]

the above poster's comment brings a question to my mind

is it wrong to get back with your ex just so you can have sex?

well i guess the question is, is it wrong to get with anyone just for sex?

so i guess it depends on, morally, whether u think no-strings attached sex is wrong!

 

[transcendent]

i'd probably get back with my ex for the sole purpose of sex which is why i don't answer her calls.

 

[AsyLum]

The question thats really at the core of discussion is:

Why don't they make beer intravenous

 

[AsyLum]

We could make pubs and bars like recharge stations! and you could get temporary alco-booths!

 

[Always]

It depends on the reason they broke up in the first place.

My ex and I both haven't had another relationship since we broke up and we've been talking of getting back together. I see him very often and I've even spent the night in his house a few times, but sex is definitely out of the question.