dont be hurt i dont think ppl were actively trying to hurt u or anything, like u said we dont know u....we r all giving our own opinion- if u want to post here and have a discussion dont get angry when u hear what u dont want to hear...this is reality and u have invited us to help u
sure some ppl joke but he has his options just as u have ur options- i hope u make the right choice and so does he- obviously talk about it with him...ull be suprised if u havnt already about the future of ur relationship
btw im not attacking u- i just dont like it when ppl have a go at ppl for giving their opinions