It depends on the person and the dynamics of the relationship I think. The first time my ex and I got together we were at my house and I had a headache and felt really dizzy and he tried to be all sweet and stuff and trying to hold me in an attempt to kiss me..haha..or he'd point at a bruise and be like awww what happened and when i'd look down he'd dive in and kiss me. It was always much better when he cut straight to the chase and acted like he really wanted to act...lol
But then another one was such a sweet, pleasant guy, he was always really sweet and it made every night together very special. It always felt so amazing being with someone who was so caring.
So I think it depends on the person it's with......