Asians tend to be shy and I'm assuming you are too since you made this thread, so your best bet is to innocently ask them something unpersonal, like if you play the same instrument ask if his model is any good, or if its a non-musical socail event ask about whether he knows what the next activity is etc. Its hard to give questions without knowing the actual circumstances of the 'excursion', but you get my drift, just ask something you could ask anyone, or something that an old person trying to make chit-chat would ask you
and once you've been talking for a a little while introduce yourselves and give one of those flimsy little girl handshakes and laugh/smile, then maybe ask some personal stuff like how long hes been playing, what school he's from etc
if he's interested in you by this stage he should be trying to carry the conversation whenever you stop talking
if he doesn't, he's either painfully shy, in which case he's boring so leave him alone, or he doesn't like you, so just politely excuse yourself ('alright then, I'm going to go back to my friends, see you later on I guess') and consider it a learning experience for talking to guys
don't try and approach a group/as a group though, you're just asking for awkwardness
Haha, personality > looks :3.
nah thats not true at all, men care about looks more than anything, epsically when meeting a girl for the first time
Which is why, OP,
to the extent you care about attracting 'attractive guys', you should do what you can to maximise your beauty i.e. put some remote effort into our hair/make-up/clothes
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