The bastard chauvinist and the bitchy feminist (2 Viewers)

[Ranger Stacie]

im going to marry a rich guy, and all the money i make i will get to spend on whatever i want and he can pay for our house and my car and he has to do all the cooking as well

 

[Alimoe_KG]

im going to marry a rich guy, and all the money i make i will get to spend on whatever i want and he can pay for our house and my car and he has to do all the cooking as well

O.O" gurl thats pretti ........soooooo ur not gonna do anythign? =/ what if he eventualli gets tired of it?

 

[Ranger Stacie]

O.O" gurl thats pretti ........soooooo ur not gonna do anythign? =/ what if he eventualli gets tired of it?

yeah, i'm gonna have a job too.

 

[Korn]

yeah, i'm gonna have a job too.

Good luck finding a bloke u can sponge off like that, unless their like 60 years old

 

[Dreamerish*~]

all the money in the world isn't worth marrying an old horny guy who you don't give a toss about
and if you're not loyal to him (i.e. you want to screw someone whose genitals are not shrivelled) he'll leave you where you started

 

[Korn]

all the money in the world isn't worth marrying an old horny guy who you don't give a toss about
and if you're not loyal to him (i.e. you want to screw someone whose genitals are not shrivelled) he'll leave you where you started

Yeah exactly, damn straight

 

[OZGIRL86]

Hey guys =D this is kinda for my 4U eng thing but just say wateva
In a relationship and perhaps future marriage, what would u expect ur partner to be like? Would he pay for everything? Or would you rather 50/50? Does that go for household responsibilities? income?
What would be ur ultimate nightmare scenerio of a partner thats eitha a chauvinist bastard or a bitchy feminist?
random thoughts?

No I wouldn't expect my partner to pay for everything. Perhaps we can pay half each or he can pay for some things and I can pay for other things.
He can help out sometimes with things that need to be done around the house, though I'll do the cooking and I don't mind cleaning and other household responsibilities.
We will both be working, and when we have kids I'll probably take some time off work to stay at home with them for a while.

 

[Alimoe_KG]

No I wouldn't expect my partner to pay for everything. Perhaps we can pay half each or he can pay for some things and I can pay for other things.
He can help out sometimes with things that need to be done around the house, though I'll do the cooking and I don't mind cleaning and other household responsibilities.
We will both be working, and when we have kids I'll probably take some time off work to stay at home with them for a while.

i read this article in smh like last term. It seems of the new generation....most gurls think like u do. They expect their partners to be quite metro and keen to share the load, financially and domestically. The thign is...it seems most guys rnt thinking like that. It seems guys still think household chores r the domain of the woman. I mean sure guys around our age will say "yes i will do half of the housework...yes i'll scrub the toilet...yes i'll change the diapers...yes i'll get off my lazi ass and stop scratchign my ass". But once we actualli do get married etc, will we still be thinking like that? And if we're not....i wonder how the women will take it. =/ will they feel indignation that in this new age of the career women....they're now still expected to do all the household chores whilst still retaining a job? female work seems to be regarded as a bonus, like a hobby almost, something that should be dropped when its time for a babi etc, while men's jobs are regarded as seemingly more vital. So how would u women feel when ur partners ultimately expect that of u? "

 

[malkin86]

I know a woman whose 60something yr old husband does do some housework - not everything, he's not a househusband, but hanging out and bringing in washing, cooking. Stuff that he can tell himself is men's work.

It's not about 50/50 for me. It's about the two (or maybe more) of us all behaving like a family - pitching in whenever we're needed, and all sharing the work as according to what we can do (not will, can).

 

[llamalope]

I won't be a housewife. but i'll do some chores, and i expect my husband to do some as well. There's nothing wrong with both of us working...

as long as the husband doesn't spend to many late nights working at the office...particularly if he has a hot secretary

 

[llamalope]

I know a woman whose 60something yr old husband does do some housework - not everything, he's not a househusband, but hanging out and bringing in washing, cooking. Stuff that he can tell himself is men's work.

It's not about 50/50 for me. It's about the two (or maybe more) of us all behaving like a family - pitching in whenever we're needed, and all sharing the work as according to what we can do (not will, can).

my dad is a house husband now... he does the cooking, cleaning, ironing, washing and grocery shopping. Mum makes the moulah ...sign of the times!

 

[OZGIRL86]

as long as the husband doesn't spend to many late nights working at the office...particularly if he has a hot secretary

lol, I agree

 

[Alimoe_KG]

my dad is a house husband now... he does the cooking, cleaning, ironing, washing and grocery shopping. Mum makes the moulah ...sign of the times!

wow realli?! Tell me more!!!! how does he feel about this role? does he eva complain that maybi he should be the one bringing home the bread? Does he eva show signs of frustration with his new role? talk more ! =D

 

[santaslayer]

My wife will do everything from the domestic duties through to being the sole breadwinner. I dont wanna do anything too strenuous.

 

[llamalope]

He doesn't care. He retired from being a pro jazz player.... its not REALLY new, but it's not like he was ALWAYS a house husband. He's also a fair bit older than my mum. He doesn't care, if he can't work, he'd rather be doing something at home to contribute. He never complains. He plays the role rather well, i think

 

[llamalope]

My wife will do everything from the domestic duties through to being the sole breadwinner. I dont wanna do anything too strenuous.

and i can see you getting a wife REALLY easily with that attitude

 

[jumb]

You mean "I can see you getting a really easy wife."

 

[llamalope]

no, but

nice one

 

[Alimoe_KG]

He doesn't care. He retired from being a pro jazz player.... its not REALLY new, but it's not like he was ALWAYS a house husband. He's also a fair bit older than my mum. He doesn't care, if he can't work, he'd rather be doing something at home to contribute. He never complains. He plays the role rather well, i think

hahaha i think ur dad has just made himself a character in my story =P ......u noe wat? i wuld realli like to interview him =D

 

[Alimoe_KG]

My wife will do everything from the domestic duties through to being the sole breadwinner. I dont wanna do anything too strenuous.

ur already like one of my characters =D just not one of the good ones =P