Tired of being single. - Need Serious Help (1 Viewer)
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lengstar
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right, where to being. first off by starting this forum although it gives everyone a chance to discuss this is admitting a lack of strength on your part. get over this and get out there instead of in here. you tried and failed and you gave up. wrong. try again but with a different approach. those who say don't change yourself ultimately you have to -> grow up. mature. be a man not a pussy. be confident without being a asshole, though assholes get some it isn't for the relationship and they are hated in the end. so work on your confidence. walk around like your worth a million bucks, do things that make you happy and stop thinking about it. flirt with any girl you can and eventually your chances will increase in your favour. don't do this later, do this now.
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he has been himself for his whole life, no luckpeepee said:
hahaha 
classic pic, mate, seriously if you have confidence issues, how are we, a bunch of people you have nfi are, going to help you ?
Get out there and ask, its a big step, but you can only get more confident if you take that first step
classic pic, mate, seriously if you have confidence issues, how are we, a bunch of people you have nfi are, going to help you ?
Get out there and ask, its a big step, but you can only get more confident if you take that first step
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ohh us poor asians are always cursed with the shyness gene... maybe it's coz our parents (the more... err.. traditional ones) lock us up at home and make us study?? hmm... that's besides the point... aAnyways
like someone said before, just go talk to the girl hahaha you might feel kinda awkward talking to a girl for no reason (i used to get that alot =( ) but it's not really that hard is it? even just catching them in the eye and smiling is enough to start a conversation =) lol why not just go up to them and say "hi, it's a nice day isn't it?" LOL so yeh... and pick up lines are pretty overrated, in fact, i don't think there's such thing =___=, just go say hi you don't have anything to lose (and everything to gain) by saying hi hope it helps you dude.
>.> now i gotta go find myself a gf >< HAHAHA xD god... aren't we all on the same boat? LOL
like someone said before, just go talk to the girl hahaha you might feel kinda awkward talking to a girl for no reason (i used to get that alot =( ) but it's not really that hard is it? even just catching them in the eye and smiling is enough to start a conversation =) lol why not just go up to them and say "hi, it's a nice day isn't it?" LOL so yeh... and pick up lines are pretty overrated, in fact, i don't think there's such thing =___=, just go say hi
you don't have anything to lose (and everything to gain) by saying hi hope it helps you dude.>.> now i gotta go find myself a gf >< HAHAHA xD god... aren't we all on the same boat? LOL
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speak for urselfBlay said:
all like a boat full of asian asylum seekers (pun not intended)
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ROFL *sigh* well... you know what?? now that i look over the first post, i think the guy seems to want to rush things. Dude, don't try to rush it, a girl will come soon =D just keep looking!! (and i've been telling myself this for the past... 4 years? LOL)
peepee
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LOLMalazn Pleasure said:he has been himself for his whole life, no luck
mmm i dunno eug, i mean using pick-up lines isn't really being yourself, it's just plain tacky
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There's no need to change yourself for someone, just be yourself.
But the fact that you are shy is probably something that you might want to change, since that it'll probably save you later on in life. Consider this senerio "you are at a meeting with a client and this client is extremely hot! you are shy and goes totally red"....who ends up being the fool here...
My advice is try and get a job where you are serving different people everyday, and where YOU have to approach people to keep your job, that way you will learn the fact that approaching new people is not as intimidating as it might sound.
But the fact that you are shy is probably something that you might want to change, since that it'll probably save you later on in life. Consider this senerio "you are at a meeting with a client and this client is extremely hot! you are shy and goes totally red"....who ends up being the fool here...
My advice is try and get a job where you are serving different people everyday, and where YOU have to approach people to keep your job, that way you will learn the fact that approaching new people is not as intimidating as it might sound.
sugaryblue
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Don't dispair! I think you need to change your environment. As in like, go to a few parties, chat up people.
Or if you can afford it, move overseas. Sometimes, it can be because you are on the wrong continent, Just like that Colin guy said in Love Actually
Or if you can afford it, move overseas. Sometimes, it can be because you are on the wrong continent, Just like that Colin guy said in Love Actually
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buy a pirate ship... the ladies love that.
RCMasterAA
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Yeah move to America. You might find three hot desperate American chicks who loooove Australian accents who don't wear anything to bed and want you to stay over at their placesugaryblue said: