neither??? does that count for anything??? i dont really know the difference and i dont really give a fuck.. I mean if i get on with a person, and ive got stuff in common, thats great well be mates... but if they're annoying, or weve got nothing to say... well were not. I dont really care for superficial shit when it comes to friends, tomboy, sissy who gives a fuck? as long as you feel good around the person and they dont piss you off - lifes sweet...