Re: What do you do on a meeting (not sort of a date) but you want to elevate it furth
Talk to her on msn, phone, myspace.. the key is to talk to her and find out who she is and what she likes and what she IS like, then from there you can get to know her better..
Ask her questions about her friends, and her lifestyle (in a subtle way), and then when you have all this knowledge, come up with some funny and witty things to say to her and relate them to her and her lifestyle..
If you want to make her laugh, you need to make her interested in what you have to say first..
This is a pretty big step for any guy who wants to go further in the relationship. So just keep your cool, don't be too keen on her.. ( messaging her all the time, trying to talk to her all the time, etc.) just keep it cool, and make her want to find out more about you..
As time progresses (say in a month or two) you should have a fairly good idea as to whether or not she actually wants to get to know you better, or even further than that - date regularly.
If the situation arises where you both feel strongly about each other and want to officially be "boyfriend and girlfriend" tell her you want to see her and date her and get to know her for a couple more weeks and then see how it goes. Just don't rush in and suffocate her..
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