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Ok. I'm in a stick situation here... (no pun intended)

There's this creep, he's like 29. Anyway, he's single, lives with his parents and has no intention in getting with someone (female) and settling down (yet).

Anywho - him and I are good friends yeah? But would you say it's normal that;

1. He randomly gives me back massages :mad1:

2. Stares at me and when I look at him, he quickly looks away

3. He knows my fucking voice :mad1:

4. Can spot me from a crowd of 1000 people

5. Always, ALWAYS compliments my outfits - especially my jeans :mad1:

So what should I do? Tell him I don't swing that way or should I just let him be?
 

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you obviously have a deeply entrenched homoerotic fantasy featuring him, hence your compliance with back massages.
 

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Ok. I'm in a stick situation here... (no pun intended)

There's this creep, he's like 29. Anyway, he's single, lives with his parents and has no intention in getting with someone (female) and settling down (yet).

Anywho - him and I are good friends yeah? But would you say it's normal that;

1. He randomly gives me back massages :mad1:

2. Stares at me and when I look at him, he quickly looks away

3. He knows my fucking voice :mad1:

4. Can spot me from a crowd of 1000 people

5. Always, ALWAYS compliments my outfits - especially my jeans :mad1:

So what should I do? Tell him I don't swing that way or should I just let him be?
Why didn't u push him away/say no when he gives you back massages? There's a line between good friends and..
 

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Why didn't u push him away/say no when he gives you back massages? There's a line between good friends and..
Yeah but I don't wanna ruin the friendship duh.

He might get offended. For all I know he could just be joking or some shit..
 
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Just start talking about girls you like/flirt with girls etc in front of/with him. Talk hetero to the max.

tbh, I thought you were gay just from your username lol.
 

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its kinda obvious theres something going on. but try being 100% sure. talk about the hottest chick out, and see how he reacts!
 

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Like I'd be talking to someone and he'd turn around and be like "HEY PAT HOW'S IT GOING!?"

But then again, with my condescending tone of voice...

its kinda obvious theres something going on. but try being 100% sure. talk about the hottest chick out, and see how he reacts!
Been there, done that. All I got was "Hmm yeah, she's fine"
 
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Like I'd be talking to someone and he'd turn around and be like "HEY PAT HOW'S IT GOING!?"

But then again, with my condescending tone of voice...



Been there, done that. All I got was "Hmm yeah, she's fine"
tbh it's normal to know a friend's voice and be able to spot them in a crowd
 

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Ya now it's kinda getting creepy.

He knows and points out the cologne I wear =S
 

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Yeah but I don't wanna ruin the friendship duh.

He might get offended. For all I know he could just be joking or some shit..
tbh imo it sounds like something more than a friendship.

you sounds like you dont wanna hurt his feeling....
which makes you sound kinda gay in this context.

joking? ahahah omg he's sooo funny. back massages is just THE FUNNIEST prank....dude, im sure he means it.
 

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why don't u root him then tell him he's shit in bed, and so you just wanna be friends.

That would work fa shiz.
 

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Ok. I'm in a stick situation here... (no pun intended)

There's this creep, he's like 29. Anyway, he's single, lives with his parents and has no intention in getting with someone (female) and settling down (yet).

Anywho - him and I are good friends yeah? But would you say it's normal that;

1. He randomly gives me back massages :mad1:

2. Stares at me and when I look at him, he quickly looks away

3. He knows my fucking voice :mad1:

4. Can spot me from a crowd of 1000 people

5. Always, ALWAYS compliments my outfits - especially my jeans :mad1:

So what should I do? Tell him I don't swing that way or should I just let him be?

least you know you're loved :p..

and yeah you let him give you massages? you must like it too? right??
 
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29 yr old
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18 yr old
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tell him u dont swing that way but if u really dont wana hurt his fealins then say the age differrence is just too much
 

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