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i have a situation, in which i was dumped due to her having unrealistic expectations, she only told me recently wat i have done wrong, and along with saying that, she sed i wasnt the one due to me not knwing wat her expectations were, we are really good friends and all, n still see each other n still really close, but she says "i dont want you back, coz ur not the one" so do i try out her expectations now that i know them, n hopefully things may change?

any other ideas or sumthin?
 

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You need to wait till she comes back to earth from planet mindreading
 

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wat exactly were these 'expectations' of hers?

i would say though, let it go...if she doesnt want it and u continue to persist, then you will only get hurt more
 

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how badly are you in love with this girl? if she's expecting you to know everything before she does, then forget about her!
 

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yer, i did love her heaps, n still do, weird enough as it is, but yer we were out for 3tmhs, but iam confused, need all the help i can get

expectations were unrealistic, like being very nice, like going over board with it, which i was, but on occasions u make mistakes.
 

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You loved her after 3 months?
Hahahahhaah, get over it you pansy, shes a dominant bitch, and you just got played.
 

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AsyLum said:
You loved her after 3 months?
Hahahahhaah, get over it you pansy, shes a dominant bitch, and you just got played.
So true, nice boys are so easy.
 

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I think you need to let her go!she sounds very melodramatci and attention seeking.by hanging onto her,your going to give her the attention she requires to satisfy her needs.Girls can be very dramatci over the whole boyfriend thing,and guys need to accept that they are teenagers who will come across girls who are seeking attention and love. I tink ur stuck in a circle of lust-NOT LOVE!i believe after 3months you would have only just started to lve-like her, not love-love her.if tat makes sense?there is a difference between loving a girl as a friend and loving her as a long-term partener-you need to recognise the difference.good luck
 

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AsyLum said:
You loved her after 3 months?
Hahahahhaah, get over it you pansy, shes a dominant bitch, and you just got played.
Are you saying its impossible to fall in love in 3 months? :confused:
 

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what971 said:
Are you saying its impossible to fall in love in 3 months? :confused:
At this age, when he just got played? Yes.
 

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me n her fell in love within the 2nd month, plus we have each others virginity
 

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toystory699 said:
me n her fell in love within the 2nd month, plus we have each others virginity
obviously she doesn't care about that, why should you? move on sugar.
 

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definately lust

loool sharing virginity

she's an intellectual whore

move along
 

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toystory699 said:
me n her fell in love within the 2nd month, plus we have each others virginity
You've gotta be a troll :p
 

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