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[Bendwhat?_over]

I've tried- so hard- to sit them down to have a deep conversation but they aren't very helpful because they shut everything out and either call everything related to mental health a 'trend' in this generation- or i'm just 'stressed' which i know that that isn't all- Mental health is not an excuse for bad marks in their eyes- it isn't even an excuse for wanting to sit in my room instead of sitting downstairs and watching a shitty ass, corny movie with my parents. They think i'm being rude and that they wanna see my face more- but every time i go to see them we always argue about something. They aren't very good listeners cause they always think they are right no matter how hard i try to tell them otherwise.
Also- my school counsellor is really busy apparently- she hasn't replied to my friend's emails in 2 weeks and she uses study periods to have sessions so that's not an option for me.

Your family doesn't seem to be by your side, so remember that. Even if they say they want the best for you, they are clearly not doing much to actually consider what is best for you. Their intentions do not match their actions, and I hope you don't deny what effect it has on you.

Please remember that the things your parents say you to aren't right at all - You will not always be trapped by them, there is a much larger world outside of your grasp and you will reach it, no matter how much they'd like to make you believe you're stuck with them.

It may be hard to believe, but there are so many people out there who would genuinely like to see you do better, and won't be as foul as your parents or teachers or, really, most adult figures in your life.

We are here for you; I certainly am. You are welcome to confide in me at any point in time, for any reason.

 

[ellurbee]

Your family doesn't seem to be by your side, so remember that. Even if they say they want the best for you, they are clearly not doing much to actually consider what is best for you. Their intentions do not match their actions, and I hope you don't deny what effect it has on you.

Please remember that the things your parents say you to aren't right at all - You will not always be trapped by them, there is a much larger world outside of your grasp and you will reach it, no matter how much they'd like to make you believe you're stuck with them.

It may be hard to believe, but there are so many people out there who would genuinely like to see you do better, and won't be as foul as your parents or teachers or, really, most adult figures in your life.

We are here for you; I certainly am. You are welcome to confide in me at any point in time, for any reason.

Thank you- truly

 

[cristal]

no but actually like the other day I asked my mum whether or not she has tried malatang and it turned into a whole lecture about how I have to be careful with my allergies and I always have to ask the restaurant, etc. Like I literally asked a simple question that was just a yes or no question and it turned into a lecture

dang how did the topic deviate so much
but as sm with allergies yh your parents probably js want to remind you to be careful, like I have to test everything new (but that's what the doctor said), but still feels like a bit of an overreaction from ur mom even if she wants you to be careful.

 

[Study to success]

dang how did the topic deviate so much
but as sm with allergies yh your parents probably js want to remind you to be careful, like I have to test everything new (but that's what the doctor said), but still feels like a bit of an overreaction from ur mom even if she wants you to be careful.

i think their just too paranoid

 

[ellurbee]

Guys my mum's mood completely changed COMPLETELY (over messages so idk how she's gonna act in person) when i told her my english mark (the mark wasn't amazing but i was kinda above average I HOPE- she thinks i'm above average and i'm pretty sure i am) I kinda hate how she bases her moods off of MY marks when they don't impact her whatsoever- but like- oh well. I have one more exam i get back this term and 2 more the next. Pray for me and pray she's not going to hammer me-

 

[Socialism]

yall and i thought i was having a rought time

 

[Bendwhat?_over]

There's no reason to compare struggles; All are valid. As long as you stay kind and, if able, offer support to others

 

[Socialism]

yeah thats right ellurbee if u need to talk im here

 

[ellurbee]

yeah thats right ellurbee if u need to talk im here

Same goes for you socialism

 

[ellurbee]

When i thought we were finally chill gang
my mum's super dooper trooper mad at me that i didn't tell her my exam results straight away in that exact moment (i waited 1 and a half days to tell her she's acting like it's the end of the world) and she's upset cause she's "Always supported me through everything" and she thinks i'm using her reaction from when i got my first math extension exam back as the excuse for why i didn't tell her (i mean yea but also cause like wtf bro you're scaring the shit outta me)- and she's also mad that i'm not using my brother as a tutor- which i did ask him for help but i didn't have the whole- designate an hour a week for him- so she's gonna use that as the reason why i'm not getting A's.
I honestly do and don't understand why she'd be upset- but not mad.
Like ok ur daughter didn't wanna tell u her marks cause she's concerned for your reaction and because she's not used to getting just passes- and sure you think she doesn't trust you- but just perchance would you consider why instead of not even allowing me to speak because you don't wanna hear my 'excuses'? nope.
Anyways now i gotta deal with my dad. And i thought it was settled...
I don't get why she's so mad gang- am i in the wrong?

 

[ellurbee]

When i thought we were finally chill gang
my mum's super dooper trooper mad at me that i didn't tell her my exam results straight away in that exact moment (i waited 1 and a half days to tell her she's acting like it's the end of the world) and she's upset cause she's "Always supported me through everything" and she thinks i'm using her reaction from when i got my first math extension exam back as the excuse for why i didn't tell her (i mean yea but also cause like wtf bro you're scaring the shit outta me)- and she's also mad that i'm not using my brother as a tutor- which i did ask him for help but i didn't have the whole- designate an hour a week for him- so she's gonna use that as the reason why i'm not getting A's.
I honestly do and don't understand why she'd be upset- but not mad.
Like ok ur daughter didn't wanna tell u her marks cause she's concerned for your reaction and because she's not used to getting just passes- and sure you think she doesn't trust you- but just perchance would you consider why instead of not even allowing me to speak because you don't wanna hear my 'excuses'? nope.
Anyways now i gotta deal with my dad. And i thought it was settled...
I don't get why she's so mad gang- am i in the wrong?

Turns out my mum already told my dad (as expected) but he was much more chill about it which was nice i guess- he was a little more understanding but he was still stuck on the whole- you broke our trust blah blah crap so like yea- now i've gotta deal with my mum.

 

[Bendwhat?_over]

I don't get why she's so mad gang- am i in the wrong?

Not at all. You're correct in your reasoning - She shouldn't be vindictive of your every move and take it all as an attack against her, when really you're afraid - Again, of her.

you broke our trust blah blah crap so like yea

Disgusting; As you had done any of it intentionally.

 

[ellurbee]

Hey guys- does anyone have any online math adv year 11 textbooks that they could share through email? Other than the Maths in Focus / new century maths ones?

 

[alphxreturns]

Hey guys- does anyone have any online math adv year 11 textbooks that they could share through email? Other than the Maths in Focus / new century maths ones?

cambridge? wait it's a pdf though are you looking for interactable ones

 

[ellurbee]

cambridge? wait it's a pdf though are you looking for interactable ones

Doesn't matter about interactive as long as i can read it and see the questions + answers that would be great

 

[ellurbee]

THANK YOUUUU

 

[Socialism]

yall be careful they dont like copyright infringement on here

if i was a mod i would prob have to take that down i think

 

[Study to success]

yall be careful they dont like copyright infringement on here

if i was a mod i would prob have to take that down i think

I think I got this link off here anyways so I think it's already floating around on this site. But I can delete my message once Ellurbee has the link

 

[ellurbee]

I think I got this link off here anyways so I think it's already floating around on this site. But I can delete my message once Ellurbee has the link

I have it thank you so much

 

[Study to success]

I have it thank you so much

ok I'll delete it now