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Would u be upset if ur 1yr gf/bf forgot ur bday ?


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No im not planning or going to dump him over such a thing >< just the feelings
 
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CoffeeBeans said:
Would u be upset if ur 1yr gf/bf forgot ur bday ?
That reminds me of ur_inner_child, who said her boyfriend of 2 years forgot her birthday.

I would be upset that he forgot, but I'll get over it. If he forgets it again... and again and again... he's dead.
 

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i forgot my ex's birthday once.. guess that's one of the reason why it's my ex.. hahaha
 

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let's put it this way: if Lewis Carroll can make up unbirthdays, why can't you? you don't need a specified date in order to love someone.

people are forgetful, but it should be you who is important to him, not the date per se.
 

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CoffeeBeans said:
Would u be upset if ur 1yr gf/bf forgot ur bday ?
the simple answer is yes, you are being too childish. you should be pleased that anyone would even stoop so low as to be publicly called your 'partner'...
that was sarcasm, you should be pissed off, in fact, you should take them on a 'date'
where you drive them out to a secluded location for a 'picnic' and then...[insert desired ending]. stand up for yourself, be a man [or an empowered woman], and if all else fails - kill their pet.
 

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im guna be different here and say u are not childish. If he has been with you for a year and your in a good relationship then he should remember 1 day out of 365 that are important.
 

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CoffeeBeans said:
Would u be upset if ur 1yr gf/bf forgot ur bday ?
Yeah, but I wouldn't dump her over it.
 

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50Cent said:
im guna be different here and say u are not childish. If he has been with you for a year and your in a good relationship then he should remember 1 day out of 365 that are important.
Personally, I'd be more upset if they forgot that it was our anniversary... I mean, they're involved with that too, whereas for a birthday, it's just you. That's the one day out of 365 (or 366 repending on the year) I'd rather my partner remember.
 

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Frigid said:
let's put it this way: if Lewis Carroll can make up unbirthdays, why can't you? you don't need a specified date in order to love someone.

people are forgetful, but it should be you who is important to him, not the date per se.
Yay for Lewis Carroll.
 

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my partner wouldnt forget my bday coz its the day b4 valentines day and i always bring that up
plus i always do smething for my bday like go out etc so he would be reminded b4 hand
thats not the point..id be upset then id think lol its just a birthday who cares..and move on
 

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CoffeeBeans said:
Would u be upset if ur 1yr gf/bf forgot ur bday ?


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No im not planning or going to dump him over such a thing >< just the feelings
after 1 year you would think that she would remember your birthday... pretty slack...
 

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CoffeeBeans said:
Would u be upset if ur 1yr gf/bf forgot ur bday ?


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No im not planning or going to dump him over such a thing >< just the feelings

Id be really cut. Seriously! Presents dont mean anything but having someone remember your bday is special. I would dump them.
 

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hun, you're not being childish.

if you talk to him about it and he goes all anal, ask him "how would YOU feel if i'd forgotten?" he probably won't admit it but hey, anyone'd be upset if their boy/girlfriend forgot their birthday.

i'd be pretty irked if my boyfriend forgot, as it's around the same time as our anniversary.
 

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50Cent said:
im guna be different here and say u are not childish. If he has been with you for a year and your in a good relationship then he should remember 1 day out of 365 that are important.
no "just rape him up the ass?" im surprised!
 

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1/5kiwifruit said:
If he / she loves u,..then they will definitely remember ur b'day! U have every right to be upset :)
That's the biggest insecure and ignorant load of crap ever. Some people have bad memories, it doesn't mean they don't love you.
 

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jumb said:
Some people have bad memories, it doesn't mean they don't love you.
yeh.. a mate of mine is shit with remembering numbers.. like phone numbers and birthdays etc.. dont take it too personally :)
 

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