actually, staright from physics contexts 2 p.229 "the plate connected to the negative pole of the batter was called the cathode and the plate connected to the positive pole of the battery was called teh anode"
so basically some stoopid guy named it in such a way that the electrons go from the negative terminal to the Cathode to the anode to the positive terminal, thus, since electrons flow from (-) to (+), they flow from negative terminal on battery to cathode (relatively speaking, the cathode here can be seen as (+), but in the CRT, relatively, the electrons go from cathode to anode, so teh cathode is said to be (+) relative to teh CRT , while the anode is (-), etc
so basically, all u need to get out of this is The cathode is negative because it is conected to the negative terminal, however , we know (-)----> (+) therefore it is the CATHODE, as the negative terminal of the battery must be connected to a 'positive' terminal (hence cathode)
dunno if that helped, that's my understanding of it, and i knwo its not very well explained, but better than nothin i spose