At what stage does someone become your boyfriend/girlfriend? (1 Viewer)

[joe_rulez37]

At the first date? First Kiss? First romp? I'm interested in other people's opinions...
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[alby]

well with all of we've counted generally from the first kiss....though with my current one neither of us really considered the other as their bf/gf for a few weeks (me longer than him), but its an easy date to count from rather than some random date

 

[alby]

true, but the whole "do you want to go out with me?" or "so, are we together?" doesnt always come up, yet you still stay with them for a decent amount of time

 

[wheredanton]

When you have both prayed to god for acceptance of your mortal feelings towards eachother. Then you are girlfriend and boyfriend.

 

[alby]

should i be laughing or moving away slowly?

 

[wheredanton]

should i be laughing or moving away slowly?

You didnt pray did you? :mad1:

 

[alby]

*hides*
no but if you want i'll thank my faries....a year and a half later

 

[Davriel]

Just remember alby, when making a prayer, you must pray the way our greatest teacher, Homer Simpson, taught us:

"Jesus, Allah, Buddha! I love you all!"

OR

"Save me Superman!"

 

[alby]

hahahha i shall from now on
<3 simpsons

 

[Dr_Doom]

when someone asks you out

or

when your with someone then u just both agree on it

but

who cares

 

[Huzzah]

You are together when you both:

* Smile when you get a message from the other, no matter what it says, and keep going back to read the message over and over. Continuing to smile

* Just before you go to sleep, wish the other was there with you

* When your upset, you just want to lean on their shoulder

* When you are happy, run & scream telling them

* Find no one else attractive

--- Or they tell you... or ask you out ---

 

[Testpilot]

Its at some point where you both feel the same about each other. Its hard to define it from a first kiss/sex stand point because these may mean nothing to the other person. If i hooked up with somebody at a party it probably won't mean that we are now straight away BF/GF because of that act. So that you become sombody's BF/GF when you both feel the same way, which may result in a 'So are we in a relationship?' kind of conversation. Many people at my (former, now i guess) school take a first date to be the start of a relationship.

 

[Dr_Doom]

yehhhhhhhhh alot of different answers here.. who is right? me? thought so.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

You are together when you both:

* Smile when you get a message from the other, no matter what it says, and keep going back to read the message over and over. Continuing to smile

* Just before you go to sleep, wish the other was there with you

* When your upset, you just want to lean on their shoulder

* When you are happy, run & scream telling them

* Find no one else attractive

--- Or they tell you... or ask you out ---

*cries*
i steped into the wrong topic, right at the heart of my breakup...
very comforting.. not! lol
but that was totally cute! i wish i had that right now, but its totally opposite...

 

[PrettyVacant]

One goes, "You're the best gf/bf ever."
And the other goes, "Yeah, I think you're the best gf/bf ever too."

If you're not together, then the situation is sufficiently awkward, and results in calamity.

 

[withoutaface]

One goes, "You're the best gf/bf ever."
And the other goes, "Yeah, I think you're the best gf/bf ever too."

If you're not together, then the situation is sufficiently awkward, and results in calamity.

That's ambiguous, though. What if we're dating people outside of the two person system? Those statements could still be perfectly legitimate.

 

[luludw]

first date....

 

[phatic]

What a bunch of sappy crap. You know you've been suckered into goin out when you're fuck buddy 'conveniantly' leaves her purse behind and you pick up her bill, and she tells every1 you were sweet and paid for her meal.

Haha. You deserve it for being so heartless.

 

[dodgyfilokid]

umm...for me when after the first date you two realise that a chemistry exists..either one of you will signal intentions anyway so it will be pretty obvious unless one party is just too ignorant to pick it up

 

[katykins]

You are together when you both:

* Smile when you get a message from the other, no matter what it says, and keep going back to read the message over and over. Continuing to smile

* Just before you go to sleep, wish the other was there with you

* When your upset, you just want to lean on their shoulder

* When you are happy, run & scream telling them

* Find no one else attractive

--- Or they tell you... or ask you out ---

that could just mean you like them.

how do you know they feel the same?

fool.