my parents r just fucked in the head...i havent been talking much last coupler days...i mean, who wants to wen they feel like shit? n my mum gets pissed off.."wats wrong with u?!?" as if its a fucking crime to have some time to myself...bloody hell she is such a moron!!! bah...but yeh...hmmmz
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PookieMonster
Got bored & left 30/01/05
ur selfish. what about your parents? u have hsc and then u can do what u want they are lookin after you.django_ said:
que? i dont get wat u mean after the "ur selfish. what about your parents? " part.
maybe i am selfish but hey i want to be happy and i have the right, just like anybody else does.
n wat about my folks..theyre fucking idiots with their own problems..its like they take their own unhappiness out on me.
maybe i am selfish but hey i want to be happy and i have the right, just like anybody else does.
n wat about my folks..theyre fucking idiots with their own problems..its like they take their own unhappiness out on me.
PookieMonster
Got bored & left 30/01/05
u just proved my statement. its all about you. u dont even consider how many years theyve spent raising you, total bs. ur fuckeddjango_ said:
no no theres no way i could ever break up with him...like...its rather be dead than break his heart...he means too much to me to just get rid of him kinda thing cuz times get tough....
i msut admit, this is like the toughest out r/ship has gotten, since i dont have school to worry about or anything i should be able to go out...and i cant see him everyday now before and after school so it makes things harder. but im working on nit with my folks, to be able to go out with him and be happy without any bother... so yeh
i msut admit, this is like the toughest out r/ship has gotten, since i dont have school to worry about or anything i should be able to go out...and i cant see him everyday now before and after school so it makes things harder. but im working on nit with my folks, to be able to go out with him and be happy without any bother... so yeh
haven't u heard of the saying..."it's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all"... from what ur telling me, i gather that he's ur first boyfriend, and somebody u'd want to remember for a long time, rite?django_ said:
no no hes not my first bf.... one of the reasons why we feel so much for each other is cuz we both know wat we want in a relationship, after so many exes. he is exactlt wat ive always been looking for, and fuck that gay quote. if i ever lost my bf....i would feel so bad...i would rather have not known him cuz id know wat im missing out on...
Nick
foregone conclusion
did your parents iron a crease in your cargopants or something
calm down it's not the end of the fucking world
you'll look back on this in a few years and regret not being a bit more laid back about it
calm down it's not the end of the fucking world
you'll look back on this in a few years and regret not being a bit more laid back about it
alby
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dude, im sorry to say this...but there's a high likelyhood that you too wont be together forever...maybe for a long time, but there are going to be things that'll come between you two. eg. different views about stuff....if someone does something stupid with someone else (eg. cheating, or something like that...eventhough im sure you've both said that you wouldnt..but things like that do happen, even if it seems like they couldnt)django_ said:
& i know you just want your freedom & for your parents to give it a break, but just try and see that they want the best for you...and if that means not trusting him or you then there isnt a heap you can do about it....you're still living under their roof, you've (to an extent) gotta live by their rules/guidelines
/end mum rant
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heres the thing.. do realli realli well at school then parents cant complain ...geez.. dun worri.. no parent will ever be happy with wat their child got..
alternatively.. u run from ure problems.. ure goin to set a precedence to always run from ure problems.. with partners.
soln?
there isnt one.. both u and ure parents must negoiate... till both of u are equalli unhappy lolz.. act lik an adult if u want to make adult decisions.
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listen and chances are they are talkin alot of bs.. but if there is one grain of truth is that.. despite u hating it.. they want to protect u..
its over protection.. but then u need to do the trust thing.. win them back slowly.. otherwise uve got no chance in hell.
alternatively.. u run from ure problems.. ure goin to set a precedence to always run from ure problems.. with partners.
soln?
there isnt one.. both u and ure parents must negoiate... till both of u are equalli unhappy lolz.. act lik an adult if u want to make adult decisions.
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listen and chances are they are talkin alot of bs.. but if there is one grain of truth is that.. despite u hating it.. they want to protect u..
its over protection.. but then u need to do the trust thing.. win them back slowly.. otherwise uve got no chance in hell.
digmahstigma
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I fully understand where you're coming from django.
It's not an issue of trust so much as overbearing overprotectiveness. They know they can trust me, or at least they did. However, they abused that by placing even more restrictions on me which led to me doing a lot of things which i'm not gonna go into right now, thereby breaking their trust. Although i can be immature i'm pretty responsible too, and if what they were asking of me was reasonable i would probably have had no problem sticking to their rules. But they weren't, and now they're paying for it. Eventually you just have to rebel against your oppressors.
It's not an issue of trust so much as overbearing overprotectiveness. They know they can trust me, or at least they did. However, they abused that by placing even more restrictions on me which led to me doing a lot of things which i'm not gonna go into right now, thereby breaking their trust. Although i can be immature i'm pretty responsible too, and if what they were asking of me was reasonable i would probably have had no problem sticking to their rules. But they weren't, and now they're paying for it. Eventually you just have to rebel against your oppressors.
