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[hipsta_jess]

ok, this is just a bit of a rant, but i am so over guys hiding their feelings!
if you wanna shag us, come out and say it, dont try and cover up your feelings, stop making us try to guess whether your into us as a shag or your into us as a potential friend.
either fully flirt with us or dont! its pathetic the way some guys act, we're not 12 anymore people!!
ok, rant over. thankyou.

 

[truly-in-bliss]

i can say the same for the gals.

 

[Loz#1]

Originally posted by hipsta_jess
ok, this is just a bit of a rant, but i am so over guys hiding their feelings!
if you wanna shag us, come out and say it, dont try and cover up your feelings, stop making us try to guess whether your into us as a shag or your into us as a potential friend.
either fully flirt with us or dont! its pathetic the way some guys act, we're not 12 anymore people!!
ok, rant over. thankyou.

Agreed. Don't hide what you want to say in some stupid, cryptic message. Say it dammit!

 

[hipsta_jess]

Originally posted by truly-in-bliss
i can say the same for the gals.

true. but at least when we flirt, we flirt. instead of this weird flirting but not really flirting that guys do.

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

You'll love me, im very open

Oh and like Bliss said, Girls screw around with Guys just as much, maybe even more. Sometimes girls can be literally in your pants then slap you when you try anything...strange.

EDIT: Not that its happened to me of course

 

[truly-in-bliss]

well its the same for both sex i guess.. u get good ones and u get bd ones..

 

[Loz#1]

Originally posted by truly-in-bliss
well its the same for both sex i guess.. u get good ones and u get bd ones..

I always get the bad ones

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

thats just unlucky, and remember, there are more bad then good, so think of it as evening the odds, the more bad youve been with, the better chance you have a meeting a great guy

 

[Loz#1]

It's not as though I'm looking, but everyone I seem to come across is bad. EVERYONE!

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

Dont give up, there are plenty of good guys out there, you just gotta come across him

 

[hipsta_jess]

Originally posted by Tommy_Lamp
Dont give up, there are plenty of good guys out there, you just gotta come across him

its not that their necessarily bad guys, its just their pathetic with showing their feelings

 

[Loz#1]

Originally posted by Tommy_Lamp
Dont give up, there are plenty of good guys out there, you just gotta come across him

I know that. But I'm not going to be here forever.

 

[glycerine]

errr I think I'm worse with signals than guys are! that's cuz I have this chronic fear of rejection and sometimes i'm fine to flirt and make signals perfectly clear and other times it's the total opposite

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

From a guys pov, i feel that when a guy meets a girl he really likes, he can sometimes go completely silent and withhold his feelings because hes worried about scaring her away, so some guys take the approach that if they dont relate any feelings, they cant go wrong, but whta they dont understand is that some girls like it whenguys express there feelings..some guys just need to be told to open up.

 

[hipsta_jess]

hey loz, ive decided dan isnt into me, hes signals are too mixed and i dont get why he would bag me out so much (even if it is just in fun) if he was into me.

 

[Loz#1]

Originally posted by hipsta_jess
hey loz, ive decided dan isnt into me, hes signals are too mixed and i dont get why he would bag me out so much (even if it is just in fun) if he was into me.

Yay, be like me and interested in nobody at the moment!

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

I have a friend who, form what ive heard, is in the same situation as u jess, She really likes him but he doesnt seem to care, but then somedays hes really affectionate, then the next day hes mean. she doesnt want to tell him she likes him (even though its pretty damn obvious) because their friends and she doesnt want to ruin the friendship, i said to her, either tell him or get over it since it was really screwing with her head.

 

[hipsta_jess]

im still interested in him though, thats the thing!

 

[glycerine]

Originally posted by Tommy_Lamp
From a guys pov, i feel that when a guy meets a girl he really likes, he can sometimes go completely silent and withhold his feelings because hes worried about scaring her away, so some guys take the approach that if they dont relate any feelings, they cant go wrong, but whta they dont understand is that some girls like it whenguys express there feelings..some guys just need to be told to open up.

I agree 100%. damn emotional ambiguities :mad1:

 

[hipsta_jess]

Originally posted by Tommy_Lamp
I have a friend who, form what ive heard, is in the same situation as u jess, She really likes him but he doesnt seem to care, but then somedays hes really affectionate, then the next day hes mean. she doesnt want to tell him she likes him (even though its pretty damn obvious) because their friends and she doesnt want to ruin the friendship, i said to her, either tell him or get over it since it was really screwing with her head.

yeah...well i dunno, its just dan bags me out all the time (just in fun and mucking around) and all that and sorta gives off vibes that he is into me, but yet he never just comes and chats or whatever...i dunno.