best friend issue (1 Viewer)

what should i do?

  • tell friend to piss off

    Votes: 5 20.0%
  • keep both as friends

    Votes: 4 16.0%
  • dont be friends with ehier of them

    Votes: 2 8.0%
  • sit them down and have a good talk wt them

    Votes: 14 56.0%

  • Total voters
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Serius

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tigerian said:
too much sarcasm too late already done

seeing I know one of the site founders I know something will be done
HAHAHAHA internet toughguy i love it!

serious answer: yeah i am in a similiar situation, ive managed to hold it together for about 6 months now, basically i dont mention them to each other and sometimes i hang out with one friend, other times i hang out with the other. One of them works days so he cant go clubbing during the week, the other works at a club, she cant go clubbing during the weekend, i go out wed and saturday nights so i can go out with both of them every week if i need to.

fridays we have a boys night, involving either going out or going to the movies or sitting in, eating pizza playing xbox stuff like that so obviously friend 2 cant come to that [being a girl and all] and then other parties, friend 1 intentionally excludes himself and doesnt go if friend 2 is going to be there so i get to hang with her at those times. Its actually pretty well balanced now that i think about it.
 

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sonyaleeisapixi said:
Your connections terrify me. I would be unable to live without BOS, even briefly.

Im even considering suicide just at the thought of going with out.
Srsly.
Razors are lined up like cocaine for snorting. Nooses tied to perfection. Pistol loaded.
LOOK WHAT YOUVE DONE

Actually, fuck it, I might just go shoot up my school or something equally gun related. Yeah. Defffs.
Fucking LOL
 

sonyaleeisapixi

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wixxy2348 said:
Sonya, do it on a Monday,.
No one likes Mondays.
fuck them
im going to ruin the best time and day of the week and do it on friday right on 3.30pm.

FUCK YOU SOCIETY
I WAS BANNED FROM BOS
 

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Mebbe I can come...
Can we shoot up my formal afterwards?
I mean, if I show up late due to whacking your school I'd better make a big entrance, right?
 

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Oh mans, now im going to be banned again :(
 

sonyaleeisapixi

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wixxy2348 said:
Mebbe I can come...
Can we shoot up my formal afterwards?
I mean, if I show up late due to whacking your school I'd better make a big entrance, right?
only if we have hot hot hot lesbian sex beforehand and film it.
 

boris

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I don't wanna get banned again :( i will be anonymous, again.
 
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jezzmo said:
Hang out with friend 2. Just say to friend1 "im going out to .. here. Friend 2 will be there. Time and place here". Go out .
Ignore the entire situation. Don't argue, don't discuss, don't get emotionally involved. Be completely disinterested, not in 'friend1' but in their 'demand that you don't see friend2'. Usually this kind of demand is one of exercising control- and will happen more than once. They won't attempt compromise until you've actually shown them that they have to.

What I hate most about these situations is that once both people confront each other, the hostility is usually dispersed within 5 minutes (especially if alcohol is involved).
Its a little hard to not get emotionally involved in such a thing..
 

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