Lainee said:
What's this whole beer thing? Does a manly-man have to be an alcoholic?
theres nothing about being alcoholic, men drink beer more than women do. Idont know why cause its a kickass drink, way more thirst quenching than water, and its alocholic which is good, but its not strong so it means you can drink heaps and not pass out.
I have feelings, okay. But there is a difference between having emotions and crying for 1/2 hour because the girl you like said something, or because your parents are getting a divorce. Everyone has problems and a real man knows how to deal with them.
Ive been in some pretty fucked up situations, but when you start crying or acting like it phased you,then
a) girls start thinking " holy shit, that big guy is crying, this must be bad" and everyone starts panicing and it makes the situation worse. People start
screaming, women and children cry and so on, whilst what needs to be done [e.g call an abulance] doesnt get done
b) everyone sort of stares at you in disgust wondering why it affected you so
much.
But if you put on a brave face and be all like " Woah! lucky that pole stopped our car at 70kmph! i thought we were never gonna come to a stop after you lost control! better call an ambulance before i bleed to death
" instead of breaking down then you become the support that others need. I am proud to know that if my friends need me they can depends me, iam not gonna fall to peices. Crying and being emotional comes second to almost every aspect of my life
Pretty much if theres something i am not coping with, i would prefer to talk to a good female friend[cause they have alot more experience with dealing with emotional problems] or a male friend who has been there, done that.
