casual vs relationship (2 Viewers)

[my sharona]

It's not like I'm deprived of anything.
I just think it would be good to have two...

Or am i just being selfish?

 

[alby]

you want two for the sake of having two or because you feel like you'd get something your bf isnt giving you?

 

[daiana]

relationships

is it really because you're simply getting out of high school and this arises?

 

[Frigid]

what would your current bf think?

 

[thejosiekiller]

i dont think he would be finding out anytime soon, if she has her way about it.

 

[beccaxx]

i so say relationships
of course, i also say im waitin til im married 2 sex it up. so i doubt i shall ever hav a "f-buddy"

 

[jumb]

I'm in a relationship at the moment and its good...
but at the same time i want to have a (sexual) fling.

Am i abnormal?

They're called hormones, so no, you're only human. However, you're morally abnormal if you dont have it with your boyfriend.

 

[DjSmiG]

im going with the casual attitude here, relationships, gives you a good sense of security, and something to brag about, lol yet, breakups can be awkward, and leave frienships, destroyed or non existant, or distant, relationships serious or not, can be difficult, but casual, no awkward breakups, you can maintain a healthy friendship, and form a closer bond with one another,

UPPIN THE CASUAL SEX FO SURE!

 

[my sharona]

I dunno. It's been a long, long time...
And everything we do is just routine (and boring).
So i went looking for a fling.
And i found one.
But now i'm not too sure about it...

Fucking conscience.

 

[jumb]

Fucking conscience.

If you're still going out with your boyfriend, then it's wrong. If he isn't doing it for you anymore, stop stringing him along and break up.

 

[my sharona]

If you're still going out with your boyfriend, then it's wrong. If he isn't doing it for you anymore, stop stringing him along and break up.

But I'm not emotionally attatched to this other guy. And i still love my boyfriend.

 

[jumb]

But I'm not emotionally attatched to this other guy. And i still love my boyfriend.

You're a typical manipulative girl.

 

[my sharona]

I don't see why it's wrong to have both a casual fling and a relationship?

 

[Courtenay]

Hmm my boyfriend is many miles away so it would be so easy to just pick up a fuck buddy or something, but i love my boyfriend and i couldnt do it to him. Only 5 months till he comes here...

 

[thejosiekiller]

u love ur boyfriend? well thats what love is imo

when uve found someone and decided to settle with them for the long haul and not leave them when things get boring

are you sure u love him or have u fallen into a rut of sorts??

 

[jumb]

I don't see why it's wrong to have both a casual fling and a relationship?

BECAUSE THE POINT OF A RELATIONSHIP IS FOR THE FAITH THAT YOUR PARTNER WONT SLEEP AROUND!

This is the type of shit that makes guys into misogynists.

 

[comeasyouare]

I don't see why it's wrong to have both a casual fling and a relationship?

I'm sure your boyfriend does. Also, think through how you'd feel if he did the same thing.

 

[OZGIRL86]

I don't see why it's wrong to have both a casual fling and a relationship?

IMO of course its wrong.. I'd hate it if someone did that to me,i could never have a casual fling and a relationship at the same time..
why would you want to? if your happy & satisfied with your relationship, you shouldn't even think about having a casual fling on the side, or even feel the need to have someone on the side.
I would never cheat on someone or intentionally do something that would end up hurting them.

 

[my sharona]

But a fling is a fling.
It's nothing serious.

 

[Jago]

I would highly suggest you talk to your boyfriend before diving into this 'fling' business.