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casual vs relationship (1 Viewer)

which do you prefer?

  • casual sex

    Votes: 20 13.7%
  • relationship

    Votes: 94 64.4%
  • whatever :P

    Votes: 32 21.9%

  • Total voters
    146

Ranger Stacie

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Id prefer to be in a proper relationship at the moment..I hate playing all the stupid games and trying to figure out whats going on
 

crazylilmonkee

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Ranger Stacie said:
Id prefer to be in a proper relationship at the moment..I hate playing all the stupid games and trying to figure out whats going on

yeah.. definately agree
 

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hmmm i'd prefer a relationship... however meh... i don't think i'll find one that'll like me right now lol... fuck it... so i don't care... but i'm probably not up for casual.
 

neo o

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I prefer a relationship but i have no real objections about casual either.
 

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I'd go either. At the moment, probably more casual though. Too many time consuming commitments! but depends on the person.
 

Minai

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spin spin sugar said:
casual is fucked... its just wrong to me i guess.

edit: i dont have a problem with anyone else doing it, but its definitely not for me
yeah thats quite similar to my thinking, i dont have a problem with it, but yeah not something i'd do myself
 

bubz :D

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neo_o said:
I prefer a relationship but i have no real objections about casual either.
steph@nie said:
I'd go either. At the moment, probably more casual though. Too many time consuming commitments! but depends on the person.
*nods*

(damn there's no quickquote, is there? O__o
new layout is very confusing :p)
 

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Personally I don't think that sex is the same unless you're in a relationship with someone. But that doesn't mean it can't still be enjoyable... :)
 
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OK, cool. I'm not the only one who wouldn't go casual.

Relationship is important.
 

neo o

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Tommy_Lamp said:
Nothing wrong with a one-night stand, but an ongoing purely sexual relationship isnt good
agreed, probably because the entire point of casual sex is to vary up the routine imo ;)
 

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neo_o said:
agreed, probably because the entire point of casual sex is to vary up the routine imo ;)
I'd think you'd get soo damn bored after the 3rd or 4th time... you'd end up bringing a mask after the 4th time, so that you can delude yourself from thinking that you're screwing someone new...
 

mellytay

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What is really the point of having a casual relationship...just for sex so you don't have to pay for it?? What happens if you are in a casual relationship and you begin to form fond feelings even fall in love with the other person and they don't feel the same way back?? Then what happens??

In a relationship you share intimacy, and etc... by you shouldnt feel locked into a relationship because you are in that relationship because to like the other person even love the other person. I've personally never had a casual relationship...but right now i am in a relationship and i just wouldnt have it any other way because I know that he will be there for me and i know where i stand in our relationship. I know that if i have a problem with anything...whether it be school, friends, or even about us...i know that i can talk to him and that will not run off. I love him and i know that he loves me. :p
 

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in a relationship and i love it and there is no way i would do anything to jepordise wats between us, sex is something that is really emotional between us but also its something which feels really good, and i dont see anything wrong with casual agreements not that i could see myself doing it anytime
 

Asmara

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I agree, I've done the whole purely sexual scene and..yeah it was good...but when i met my boyfriend......the other sex just didn't match up to what we now have. I guess for some people they might feel its easier to enjoy sex more when its jus that...but i think that in a relationship...you share something more...and i think that it makes the difference. But hey, i still don't have anything against casual sex.
 
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would you rather....

hey guys, and gurls, im just curious...if it came to a decision, where u could have one or the otha...would u have a relationship, or just a regular F*!@ buddie?
 

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depends if the relationship would be my last and the girl was the bestest

then i'd have a real relationship and get fucks in between...
 

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