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glycerine

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I can't multitask well. And I can't concentrate. Speaking of which, I should be doing my modern assignment. Ergh!

And jhakka, change yr av. Every time I see it, I want a diet coke :p
 
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Originally posted by glycerine
And jhakka, change yr av. Every time I see it, I want a diet coke :p
But I just changed it to this this morning. :(
 

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Originally posted by jhakka
I can eat and talk at the same time, though.
talent!! :p

Originally posted by glycerine
I can't multitask well. And I can't concentrate. Speaking of which, I should be doing my modern assignment. Ergh!
i should be doing my english extension assessment :(
 

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never, yes, yes.
cheating is like cheating the person out of the relationship they think they're in, so being unfaithful whether it is mental or physical is cheating to me. and re-offenders would get the no.

so tattoodguy, are you thinking of cheating on somebody?
 

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Originally posted by jhakka
But I just changed it to this this morning. :(
Haha... I'm a diet coke addict. It's so sad. But sometimes I cheat on diet coke and drink diet pepsi. : (
 
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Originally posted by glycerine
Haha... I'm a diet coke addict. It's so sad. But sometimes I cheat on diet coke and drink diet pepsi. : (
I'm not fond of Diet Coke myself. I like the regular stuff or the Vanilla one. But that's a photo I'm proud of (since I took it myself and at full size it looks really cool). And it goes with my custom status. So blah.

I've never comitted to a soft drink, so I never cheated.
 

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i would never cheat on my bf,
nopes, my bf has never cheated on me :)
um depends on what they have done and how he feels about us, but it would be diffcult to get my trust back.

touchy feelie :(
 

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i met this group of guys whilst i was away and one in particular and i hit it off right away, anyway he ended up staying over in my room (i had my own) and even though i liked him, i thought he thought it was a one night thing cause in my experiences guys are mainly about that.. anyways the next night i went out with his friends again and he stayed home for whatever reasons.. that night i was absolutely blind and i ended up with his best friend(though we didnt sleep together). two nights later, and after the first guy and i had been to gether again, he found out and was sooooooo cut up.. i felt like the biggest whore ever and just plain mean. i fucked things up so badly.. it was the worst feeling in the world..

since then he has forgiven but i dont think he has really forgotten.. he lives interstate and im seeing him in a couple of weeks but i regret everything soooooo much and i wish i could change things.. i am NEVER EVER going to do that again!!

it annoyed me though that the whole thing was made out to be my fault.. i was in sooo much trouble from him whilst he never said a word to his friend.. i mean sure they are best friends but the 2nd guy brought me home whilst i was under the impression that was all he was going to do.. just remember it takes 2 to tango...
 

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i have never cheated on anyone

i have been cheated on

and yeah i have forgiven

i broke up with my bf immediately when i found out, i was a lot like most of the other ppl in this thread saying 'i would never take back a guy who cheated' etc etc to that effect, in fact i even remember having a conversation with someone the DAY before i found out this guy had cheated on me, saying i would never even give a guy who did that to me the time of day again.

but yeh, it happened to me, we broke up initially but after a couple of months, because of the circumstances in which the cheating happened, i was able to forgive. thats not to say ive forgotten it and we work thru that every single day and it is HARD to get over it. but can i just say to the ppl who sit here and go "oh i would never forgive a guy who did that to me" - you wait and see, when it happens with someone you love and youve been with for a long time- you will be surprised how you respond/

anyway, im pretty glad i forgave him because him realising how severely fucked it is to do that to someone helped him to grow up a lot, and weve both learnt A LOT from it.
 

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No

Yes

I will forgive, but not forget

My definition: being unfaithful. someone who plays with your feelings eg with you but ALSO with another person
 

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The easiest solution to this would be to legalise polygamous marriages for both sexes (from an economic point of view this would work wonders!). That way there's no cheating - ever :p
 

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It's not cheating if he/she kisses someone for less than 10 seconds - so really, it's not worth it :p
 

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no (2 years long distance and I somehow managed to remain completely faithful. Go me)
no
I don't know as i've never been in that situation. I suppose I could forgive for a one-time thing, but if it had been ongoing, then I doubt I could forgive for a while, if at all. I'm emotionally fragile :p
 

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Originally posted by ~*HSC 4 life*~
oh gawd :p

what's next?
"it's not cheating if he/she fucks for less than 10 minutes"
Good thinking!
 

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i have cheated on my boyfriend and i dont dont feel guilty, i dont care if he did too, i dont believe thin that faithfullness crap
 

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