dinner isnt lame, i go out to dinner as much as possible, with friends, with family, with random strangers i meet on holidays, man i love going to dinner trying different resturants.
but interesting dates are way cooler,try miniture golf, dolphin watch cruise thingy, spear fishing[ or just plain old snorkeling if she doesnt like hurting animals] rock climbing
random location hangout, like at the park or busstation or something
bowling is done alot but hasnt become cliche yet, and its really fun
rollerblading, wether at a ring or just down the street.
the local pool[or if u have your own or she does, just hang there]
ever gone shopping as a date? shopping is a way that girls connect with each other, i dont mind shopping aslong as i get to go to some shops i would be interested in, and i get a milkshake or an icecream or something.
Kiama blowhole is a cool date, or kiama in general
beachside markets
man be original with dates, movies are fun and so is dinner, but you gotta add soem spice to make the girl love you