Honestly, How can something you do something sexual with a partner that you love and find it degrading?
If your so uncomfortable with your sexual partner, maybe its time you found one where you can both explore different things sexually. WTF is this shit, Head is degrading? Only if you cock slap your partner and leave them immediately?
Porn has no relevance to a romantic relationship, its just FAP material. Its not like your going to give someone you love a money shot, and than just leave.
ITT : Boring people who's idea of adventurous sex is with the lights on.