does your bf oogle over other girls right infront of you??? (1 Viewer)

[SKA]

heres a scenario....

your driving along in the car with your bf and you see him staring at some random skanky bitch walking on the pavement OR he makes a comment such as 'oh shes hot!' OR does a bit of column A and a bit of B!

quite frankly this pisses me off! i cant even watch a movie sometimes without him going 'dayem!' and i know exactly what it means.

he says he tries to keep it to a minimum out of respect for me but i guess it just doesnt work all the time.

girls.... does anyone else get this, and does it shit you hard or is it just me????

and guys...what do u think about it??? do you think its disrespectful but still do it anyway???

 

[hiphophorray123]

personally i would convince myself 'theres no other girl in the world' and concentrate on her....if i actually loved her of course..

i don't think you should get too jealous (if you do) he IS with you after all NOT her

 

[Keen]

I think he seems to be doing it more than what most guys would, at least around their girlfriend.
You've had a word to him, but I guess unless you've been firm and he's not really making improvements, it's probably not the strongest grounds to leave him on. Other than that does he respects you?

Keen

 

[Shuter]

i don't think you should get too jealous (if you do) he IS with you after all NOT her

But of course, he'd prfer to be with these other girls instead (ladder theory).

Oh well, at least he's honest and says it, most guys think it anyway.

 

[Not-That-Bright]

I wouldn't do this to any chick i'm with.... that's kinda screwed.

 

[Skeeta]

my bf does it ALL THE TIME..

it never really got on my nerves. i mean if i see a spunky boy i'll have a looksie but i know i'd never do anytin bout it so i assume he will do the same

I'd rather him do it in front of me than hear him talkin to his mates about it or sometin

 

[ur_inner_child]

my boyfriend and i both do it......

hahahahahhaha

 

[wanton-wonton]

and guys...what do u think about it??? do you think its disrespectful but still do it anyway???

i would do it for fun just to tease her...but if my gf ( i dont have one, shut up) gets pissed or anything. then no...have you told your bf that you dont like it when he does that sorta stuff??

I'd rather him do it in front of me than hear him talkin to his mates about it or sometin

i'd say too.

 

[SKA]

i would do it for fun just to tease her...but if my gf ( i dont have one, shut up) gets pissed or anything. then no...have you told your bf that you dont like it when he does that sorta stuff??

yeh i just hit him and he tells me hes sorry and gives me a kiss.... well cant blame him for making it up to me.

he doesnt do it that much but wen he does... just makes me feel like im too ugly for him or something

 

[wanton-wonton]

yeh i just hit him and he tells me hes sorry and gives me a kiss.... well cant blame him for making it up to me.

he doesnt do it that much but wen he does... just makes me feel like im too ugly for him or something

he's just teasing ya i'd say. if he was for real, i wouldnt think he'd be staying with ya.

 

[SKA]

my bf does it ALL THE TIME..


I'd rather him do it in front of me than hear him talkin to his mates about it or sometin

im the opposite... guys are gonna do it when they are together. i would rather him do it when im not around

he's just teasing ya i'd say. if he was for real, i wouldnt think he'd be staying with ya.

no. i have to admit.. my bf is no arsehole..

 

[Skeeta]

he still does it to his mates - been there done that.. i dunno i jus feel like hes more open.

this is a guy that reads FHM when we're in the same room though...

 

[SKA]

he still does it to his mates - been there done that.. i dunno i jus feel like hes more open.

this is a guy that reads FHM when we're in the same room though...

oh really??? what about pornos??

 

[wanton-wonton]

i guess so...from the way skeeta describes him...

 

[OZGIRL86]

im the opposite... guys are gonna do it when they are together. i would rather him do it when im not around

yep, its ok sometimes,but if it was me it would annoy me if he did it too often, can't your bf just think it to himself without saying it infront of you?

 

[SKA]

yep, its ok sometimes,but if it was me it would annoy me if he did it too often, can't your bf just think it to himself without saying it infront of you?

once i told him to stop he did.. but he done it about 3 times today n i was just giving him lil evils.

 

[wanton-wonton]

good on you.

is he asian?

 

[thejosiekiller]

ah if ur bothered about it he should care- even if it isnt such a big thing for him he must realise u dont like it....if he ignores this then say something again because then he is just ignoring you.

yet in the end its probably a little thing, either he has to stop doing it around u (i doubt he will stop for good.lol) or u will not have to care and check out other guys or something

ps- whats so wrong with a guy reading an fhm or ralph? i dont feel weird its just a stupid magazine and most times shes probably reading cosmo or something

AND ONCE AGAIN SHUTER STFU WITH THE FUCKING LADDER THEORY

 

[SKA]

good on you.

is he asian?

yeh why?? whats that got to do with anything?

 

[wanton-wonton]

yeh why?? whats that got to do with anything?

yeh i thought so just a bit typical for some of them...

what nationality are you? if you're not asian, he's a damn lucky guy.