yep, personally i'm in the exact same position.
i got called up during class in term one by the counsellor (much to my bewilderment), and then she told me about how someone from the department of education had called her and told her about my predicament (nobody in my school knows about this), and then she recommended i apply as well. now i'm kinda facing a moral dilemma coz i'm doing well at school, since like in the quote above i've become used to the family member's condition over so many years, so i cant really justify to myself that i'm as disadvanteaged as some of the other applicants, but in order to get into medicine, due to its exceptionally competitive nature, i might have to fall back on eas, since i am more than eligible to apply.
still havent decided yet.