First time for him (3 Viewers)

[MzbLaZeIT]

So guys, how was your first time experience having sex?
was it all cracked up to what you though it would be?
did it last long?


I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and for him it was his first time. We're pretty open which is good and have known eachother for ages
he rekons that headjobs are better, and i was like. um youve only done it once (a whole 5 minutes) maybe the next couple of times will be better? it kind of put him off sex, so its pretty much just foreplay that exists in our relationship. of course he's enjoying oral sex because it gives him more pleasure, it wouldnt even stay up totally with the condom on... but i heard condoms decrease the sensitivity anyway........
i dont want him thinking sex isnt as enjoyable, i think it kind of put him off... :O

i think he had great expectations that everything that has already happened (which has been excellently enjoyable will only bring him a bigger enjoyment with sex, but it was an obvious anti climax for him....)

i dont get it lol can any guys relate?
and no ' ha ha' homo comments

 

[mr_brightside]

nah he's right in some regard. It just depends and how good the sex your having is.
Once you two have a good 2 hour fucking session, im sure he will change his mind.

 

[nwatts]

i can't say i relate with your nasty ass boyfriend no

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

nah he's right in some regard. It just depends and how good the sex your having is.
Once you two have a good 2 hour fucking session, im sure he will change his mind.

hopefullyyy...ill have to do alot of convincing and turning him on....
im sick of this oral sex bullshit (lol)

 

[nwatts]

try different positions/without a condom

see if he goes for it

 

[mr_brightside]

hopefullyyy...ill have to do alot of convincing and turning him on....
im sick of this oral sex bullshit (lol)

Tell him if he wants to get off, then have sex with you.
Otherwise tell him your mouth is off limits

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

yeah actually, this was his second time (if we're actually taking note of it... )
the first time we were really in the mood and it just 'happened' no condom, then literally 1 + 1/2 thrusts after im like nooo this is wrong. no condom take it out! (phew)

and he was like "even that 2 seconds last time without a condom was 10 times better than this, this thing is suffocating my dick"

im not ready to only use just the pill as a forms of contraceptive. i want the rubber too!

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

Tell him if he wants to get off, then have sex with you.
Otherwise tell him your mouth is off limits

he will probably be fine with just kissing only. lol jokes aside...... grrr@VERY STRONGLY (refraining from using the word love) LIKING SOME1.. those puppy dog eyes im a sucker.. we're both whingy baby bitchesss.... if he doesnt get, either do i... i cant live without some stress relief these days lol.....
but i think im going to try a stronger method of your ideaa... 'f0 shureee yah!

who would of thought a girl just wanting sex could be so hard!!

 

[Born Dancer]

essentially, if the contraception side is a huge worry for you, you have the right to tell him you arent having sex without a condom.

sex isnt for everyone, you might have to stick to oral all your life!
ohnoes!

 

[mr_brightside]

Oh fuck me.
He's one of those, "eh my penis is covered in plastic" cunts?!
TELL HIM TO GET OVER WEARING <1mm OF LATEX AND FUCKING FUCK YOU.

ahem.....
Try different types of condoms. They come in different sizes and brands. They are all different.

 

[nwatts]

i had a thought. maybe you are just really shit at sex.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

Oh fuck me.
He's one of those, "eh my penis is covered in plastic" cunts?!
TELL HIM TO GET OVER WEARING <1mm OF LATEX AND FUCKING FUCK YOU.

ahem.....
Try different types of condoms. They come in different sizes and brands. They are all different.

yeahhhhh think might give that a go toooooo... damn whingersssssssss
wonder if im the only person that gets caught up with weird partners @)$()#( none of them have been normal lol

essentially, if the contraception side is a huge worry for you, you have the right to tell him you arent having sex without a condom.

sex isnt for everyone, you might have to stick to oral all your life!
ohnoes!

thats not an issue here, we both know there will be no sex with no condom.... he is pretty decent.. not one of those 'im having sex without a condom or you can fuck off" please... thats immature and for kids...
he has strong morals on concraception just as much as meeeeee

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

i had a thought. maybe you are just really shit at sex.

well im not experience, but i can guarenteee im not bad!
like that shouldnt matter this far into the relationship, like he knows what good sex is yet! LOL

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

sex isnt for everyone

bad experience????
we're made to have sex dude! asif you would say that lol

 

[withoutaface]

Contraception and morals only coincide in the case of playing Vatican roulette. It's not a moral thing to want to protect yourself from STD's and pregnancy, it's practical.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

Contraception and morals only coincide in the case of playing Vatican roulette. It's not a moral thing to want to protect yourself from STD's and pregnancy, it's practical.

yes, that's true.

now back to the topic of conversation...

 

[nwatts]

well im not experience, but i can guarenteee im not bad!
like that shouldnt matter this far into the relationship, like he knows what good sex is yet! LOL

blokes are born knowing what is good and what is bad sex.

 

[Born Dancer]

bad experience????
we're made to have sex dude! asif you would say that lol

not at all bad experience. i didnt say i didnt enjoy sex, but there are people who dont. and if you are taking that viewpoint, we are "made" to have reproductive sex.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

blokes are born knowing what is good and what is bad sex.

"well im not experience" oops i sounded like an import back there... meant experienced......

ok the sex isnt bad!! we havent properly "done it yet"
wtf is 5 minutes???? lol i wanna ride for hoursssss

 

[nwatts]

can we get a ban on the word reproductive in the L&R forums. it horrifies me.