For guys: Orgasming too soon (2 Viewers)

[neo o]

Sex without orgasm
Don't orgasm during sex
You may be used to having sex that always finishes with orgasm. To help your control of orgasm get out of this frame of thinking. Have orgasms during masturbation or outside of sex. This helps your body separate sex from orgasm. Then when you have sex, you and your body won't automatically expect an orgasm. Thinking about orgasm, thinking about how and when it will happen will actually bring it quicker. If you think orgasm, you will orgasm. Be content with knowing you'll have an orgasm later by masturbating or some way outside of sex. Then try to finish sexplay without having an orgasm. Do this on a number of occasions, especially when learning new techniques. Once you can separate sex from orgasm, control becomes easier. This is not to say you should never orgasm during sex - do whatever you want - simply that having sex without orgasm helps with learning orgasm control.

Sex without orgasm? What's the point? I'm not a meat dildo, good sex happens when both you AND your partner climax.

 

[Serius]

" If you think orgasm, you will orgasm"

Next time i am on the train iam just gonna sit there and totally focus on the word orgasm.

 

[Darkening]

THATS TRUE!!

"If you think orgasm, you will orgasm"

So during sex, dont make it about you, make it about her and dont focus on how you feel, but make her feel appreciated! so put your mind on homework!!! and show her a nice time, makes u last longer and makes it feel good when you do finally orgasm!

 

[UnIqUe_PrInCeSs]

THATS TRUE!!

"If you think orgasm, you will orgasm"

So during sex, dont make it about you, make it about her and dont focus on how you feel, but make her feel appreciated! so put your mind on homework!!! and show her a nice time, makes u last longer and makes it feel good when you do finally orgasm!

good, that's the spirit!!!



guys should stop being selfish in bed.

 

[stazi]

to those talking about being unselfish or thinking about something else:

my last intention is orgasming now during sex. i think about dead old people yet i still cum in 5 minutes

 

[withoutaface]

to those talking about being unselfish or thinking about something else:

my last intention is orgasming now during sex. i think about dead old people yet i still cum in 5 minutes

You know what that means.

:/

 

[stazi]

lolz yeah, i love bruce willis. last time i tried thinking about some hindu spiritual leader my gf's parents had on their wall.

 

[Darkening]

HAHA!! dead people sex

 

[Supra]

lolz yeah, i love bruce willis. last time i tried thinking about some hindu spiritual leader my gf's parents had on their wall.

lol!
Fuk i love sneaking out to my girl's house too...

With teh 5mins thing...srsly those guys were right...masturbation a few hours before kick-off should make u last longer...also dont think about coming, think about pleasing her and go SLOWER when u think u might not last...going slower makes it more sensual/emotional etc. You could also try pulling out totally and stopping before you think you're gonna cum, and hten start over...after a while ull be able to last longer. Let her be on top btw, it takes longer for you to cum that way.

 

[Number7]

As people have said before, practice makes perfect. Rubbing one out before intercourse never worked for me, I'd last slightly longer but I'd also have a slight weaker erection - not worth it. Sometimes I'd cum from the obligatory blow-job but it's not the same as wanking cause the juices are already flowing, per se. So in short, have more sex and aim to last longer. Don't have more sex but thrust slowly so you last long etc....just practice.

 

[zeropoint]

why are guys always more hornier than girls?

So not true. As for the 5 min problem, my suggestion is if you can't go continuously for that long, just take a break and try something else, have you tried oral?

 

[Darkening]

Girls are more hornier then guys, the diffrence is... you can tell if were horney by lookin at out pants.

 

[dora_18]

well the difference is that chicks dont think about sex 24/7 ...and most guys do...just look at you d.p !! as for who gets more horny...i think it depends, but i know i have days where i think about sex all the time as well...and get horny over everything...resulting in several orgasms that day...

 

[UnIqUe_PrInCeSs]

dora_18]well the difference is that chicks dont think about sex 24/7 ...and most guys do...

THAT is so effing true.

it's a fact.

 

[stazi]

i hardly think about sex.

 

[tlodg]

i hardly think about sex.

I don't believe you.

 

[stazi]

ummm....ok. no, really. i might think about it a few times a day, which isn't that much.

 

[tlodg]

That's special.

 

[stazi]

no, not really. if the rumour about guys thinking about sex every 10 seconds was true, how would we get anything done/

 

[tlodg]

I thought guys somehow get used to that