i have unfortunatly just lost a friend to suicide....but then again was aware of it. i met her in hospital. i attempted suicide first week of the holidays and spent a while in hospital
i had done it before, but i hadnt meant it as much as i had then. before when i did it i spoke about it to friends and what not. my last attempt...and hopefully my last was different, like your friend. i didnt speak to anyone over the last six months about my pain i was suffereing not even my psyc. i meant it more then anything becuase i didnt tell a friend so they could stop me, i didnt tell anyone simply because if i even told a stranger they would try stopping me n i didnt want that, i wanted out. i have my reasons
what i would suggest, yeah okay so u can ask if she is okay now...but not everyday. i have only told a few friends and personally i wished i didnt, because they were always asking if i was ok...it drove me up the wall.
she will recover and the best way for you to cope is possibly talk to someone yourself and keep that open relationship that you have. =]
hope it works out okay sure it would just let her no u r there for her which im sure u have x