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shady_03 said:
Can guys and girls be just friends? Coz there is the whole attraction factor, and it seems that its inevitable that 1 of em will like the other.....
of course guys and girls can be friends n only friends
 

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markmooks said:
It's dodgy when either of the boy or girl likes the other and the other doesn't like the other.
It's even dodgier when they both like each other but one of them has a bf :)
 

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Airness said:
It's even dodgier when they both like each other but one of them has a bf :)
Or a gf for that matter. When a guy is taken and you like him you feel so bad.

Well I do.

I have a bad conscious..
 

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markmooks said:
I just hug my pillow :) Can't hug her.
hahahaha yes. I'm sure the pillow must feel very much like her =) you know...all soft and huggable =P
 

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no i dont think guys and girls can be friends
well yeah they can
but its not the same as same sex friendship
there will always be something extra there
 

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soha said:
no i dont think guys and girls can be friends
well yeah they can
but its not the same as same sex friendship
there will always be something extra there
the something extra being a possibilty? possibility of morrrrrrrre than just the friendship?

considering (as friends) two people get along well, it's always a desired starting point, you know that you get along, etc etc
 

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braad said:
the something extra being a possibilty? possibility of morrrrrrrre than just the friendship?
exactly. well, in the point of view of the guy at least, cause all he wants is sex.
 

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braad said:
the something extra being a possibilty? possibility of morrrrrrrre than just the friendship?

considering (as friends) two people get along well, it's always a desired starting point, you know that you get along, etc etc
yeah theres always that possibility
and naturally that attraction...even if u think now way we ar ejust friends etc
still...u cant fight it..if it happens...
 

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Sweets said:
nope, because you will be sitting in starbucks innocently and they will try and kiss you out of the freaking blue
Sounds like a good story. Pray tell.
 

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My best friend is a chick (im a guy by the way despite popular belief) and I have never hooked up with her, there was an awkward stage a little while ago when her feelings got out of hand but we are still best mates… so yeah it can work just being friends! :S
 

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One of my closest friends is actually my ex boyfriend. And we're friends, and only friends. There's not attraction anymore... I love it, cos it means I get a guys view of everything.
 

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pat the cat said:
My best friend is a chick (im a guy by the way despite popular belief) and I have never hooked up with her, there was an awkward stage a little while ago when her feelings got out of hand but we are still best mates… so yeah it can work just being friends! :S
Don't worry I've been in teh same situation, cept I'm a girl and both our feelings kinda got in the way. We didnt' really know what to do and I kinda made up my mind to not follow what I was feeling and since then we've stayed pretty tight, except for one brief period.
 

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It depends on how well you click.
Sometimes, friends click so well that they end up clicking together.
:eek:
 

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Airness said:
It depends on how well you click.
Sometimes, friends click so well that they end up clicking together.
And sometimes one friend thinks they click more together, and the other one doesnt think that. And then they ruin a beautiful friendship over clickingnessiship....


Anyway its all good as long as no one becomes too attached
 

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Airness said:
It depends on how well you click.
Sometimes, friends click so well that they end up clicking together.
:eek:
really now. :)
 

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Dreamerish*~ said:
really now. :)
It's happened to me. Although the clicking together still seems ...unclicked.

You? :)
 
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Airness said:
It's happened to me. Although the clicking together still seems ...unclicked.

You? :)
hmm well if she has a boyfriend it probably should remain unclicked. if i'm right about who this girl is, she's actually quite serious about her boyfriend, but is just a bit confused.
 

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