Bainesy said:
explain both i guess
and you shouldnt have to calculate calory intake. you just eat whatever you want, and if you think that doing this will cause you to gain weight, then you arent exercising enough, ie, the food isnt the problem
It takes me only a glance to figure out the calories. But I'm more concerned about the fat content lol. In any case, I'm vegan and I have a gluten allergy so I'm an exception when it takes a while to order. Unless it's from a veg place, then all I have to ask about is the gluten factor.
In General:
Everybody is different, but I personally want to travel the world, leave something behind (write a book, make a film, whatever it may be ), start a charity, help people, improve and enrich the education system in 3rd world countries, learn a few more languages, get involved in politics (this is virtually crossed off the list, I've got ties to the Greens Party in Italy), encourage people to go 'green', go to university (and graduate lol), and speak out against animal cruelty/human rights violations/sweat shops/etc. That's me in a nutshell.
In a relationship:
Someone who listens. They don't have to be the sweetest person ever, but that sure is a bonus. There needs to be respect and trust. Commitment isn't something I am currently worried about. That would be an issue if we were together for a while and it was serious, not just a fling or whatnot.
Honesty is important. If they want an open relationship, I'm fine with it. So long as we are honest with each other. You don't want any secrets. I don't anyway.