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mmm_sofay

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not that it bothers that i was the other girl.
but why do guys with girlfriends pash other girls?
then go back to their girlfriend?

is it some sort of power feeling, knowing that they can still pick up when they have a girlfriend?
 

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mmm_sofay said:
yeah, but why?
is it the power trip?
knowing you can still pick up?
Well I don't know about other guys but for me it's got nothing to do with any power trip.

It's just good to be able to hook up with someone different.

It's like normally I eat snickers but every once in a while I'll have a mars.
 

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iamsickofyear12 said:
It's like normally I eat snickers but every once in a while I'll have a mars.
Not during the extortion I hope.
 

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iamsickofyear12 said:
Well I don't know about other guys but for me it's got nothing to do with any power trip.

It's just good to be able to hook up with someone different.

It's like normally I eat snickers but every once in a while I'll have a mars.
does the girlfriend know?
and is it classified as cheating?
 
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mmm_sofay said:
is it some sort of power feeling, knowing that they can still pick up when they have a girlfriend?
Yes, sometimes that does very much-so come into effect...
 

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mmm_sofay said:
does the girlfriend know?
and is it classified as cheating?
Well right now I don't have a girlfriend but if I did;
she wouldn't know
i would classify it as cheating but I don't care
 

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iamsickofyear12 said:
Well right now I don't have a girlfriend but if I did;
she wouldn't know
i would classify it as cheating but I don't care
would you do anything else with the other girl?
 

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mmm_sofay said:
would you do anything else with the other girl?
If she was hot and my girlfriend wouldn't find out.
I just couldn't let myself miss the opportunity if it was there.
 

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so its pretty much you want/crave/need some variety in your life?
 
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mmm_sofay said:
so its pretty much you some variety in your life?
Yeah exactly.

But when I meet someone who I think might be a bit more serious and long lasting I won't do it anymore. It's just now that I am only going out with girls I know I have no future with that I will do this.
 

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I think that what happened with you and that guy at the pub was him cheating on his girlfriend. He had intentions, which makes it the furthest thing from innocent. If it went further, he would be a slut. And an asshole. And newly single. I think I could forgive if my boy kissed someone else just randomly (like what happened with you sofay), but if there was some emotioal attachment to it, he'd be gone like a hot potato.

The guy you got with, in my opinion, must not value his relationship with his girlfriend v. highly.
 

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the way he talked about his gf, its like he was only with her for her car.
and possibly sex.
 

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It proves my point. He doesnt care about her... only cars and sex it would seem. That sounds so wrong- the guy is with the girl for the car.

My advice: Dont sex him until he's had a blood-test (you'll have to wait a few weeks, so its best to get the ball rolling now!).
 

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