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Have you ever had a secret relationship? (2 Viewers)

Jamory

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Yep I have... 18 months -> ended 2 weeks ago :mad1: it was kind of complicated so we had to keep it secret, only like 2 other people knew about it... but now it kind of sucks because.. it was secret so who can I winge to about breaking up? haha... lol...
 

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Yeah, I had one with my cousin and we kept it secret for about 3 months.
 

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yeh.....i was in one it lasted 2 years before ppl found out abt it... but me and the guy are like bestfriends now.... and i'm in a serect relstionship now.....its only been like 7 days...lol... but yeh its kept a serect coz its my bestfriend best mate, and if he finds out he will go like crazy or sumthing.. i dont even want to knw....but i knwn long enough to knw it would be a good reaction....
so yeh
 

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yeah i was in one for 5 years. her parents didnt know and that was cause she was not allowed to have a bf plus i was not the same nationality that her parents wanted their daughter dating. ie they wanted a vietnamese guy, and obviously i am not!

ended over a month ago cause i wanted her to tell her parents cause i was sick of the restrictions but she didnt want to. ie. she just wasnt that into me to tell her parents. BIG RED FLAG! so i ended it.

secret relationships suck cause you are restricted in the things you can do.
 

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Malazn Pleasure said:
yeah i was in one for 5 years. her parents didnt know and that was cause she was not allowed to have a bf plus i was not the same nationality that her parents wanted their daughter dating. ie they wanted a vietnamese guy, and obviously i am not!

ended over a month ago cause i wanted her to tell her parents cause i was sick of the restrictions but she didnt want to. ie. she just wasnt that into me to tell her parents. BIG RED FLAG! so i ended it.

secret relationships suck cause you are restricted in the things you can do.
All you Asians look the same anyway. You could've just pretended you were Viet.
 

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lol i think cause there was a communication barrier. for some funny reason all viet parents i have met really cant speak english properly, despite some being in australia for like over 20 years!
 

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ElGronko said:
Yeah, I had one with my cousin and we kept it secret for about 3 months.
at least it wasnt with ur sister
 

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^CoSMic DoRiS^^ said:
people will figure it out in the end, trust me. you can only keep it a secret for so long, sooner or later somebody will spot you out together or you'll forget to delete a phone message from them or something and voila, you're discovered :eek:
dude this is so not true, ive been having a secret relationship for 4yrs now, its on and off but its totally qwesome and like its something forbidden and totally not allowed but i dnt care...if ppl found out they'd be really disappointed in me but its so fun and thrilling lol :) :rofl: :lol:
 

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had one for a couple of months, said we wouldnt get 'attached' i got sick of it an ended before finding out that the guy had fallen in love with me... whoops. we neva dated after that though, actually, we stoped talking!
 

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um, not really. I had a secret 'hookup' that I didn't tell my friends about for months cause they're kinda judgemental. But then when he got stalker-boy on me, I came clean and bitched to some of them. haha
 

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yeah its kinda gay. he was and still is married and he has a little girl now.
we still contact each other now as friends.
it didnt last long his wife scares me. she screamed at me once.. lol
 

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it didnt last long his wife scares me. she screamed at me once.. lol
Gee, I wonder why she'd do that. It probably wouldn't have anything to do with you fucking her husband or anything.
 

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Jachie said:
Gee, I wonder why she'd do that. It probably wouldn't have anything to do with you fucking her husband or anything.
lol just so you know a realtionship doesnt always involve fucking and she didnt know we were together. i used to work with him and i was on his shift and she screamed at him for having a girl on his shift and at me for being on the shift with him.
 

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What an unfounded paranoia she had, too.
 

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i dont see the point in keeping a "relationship" secret. It really wouldnt be much of a relationship would it?

On the other hand, keeping some things to yourself when things are fresh is perfectly fine. And sometimes preferred.
 

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