is it cheating when...? (1 Viewer)

[Struts]

i went to a party on the wknd n i got dared to kiss this chick so i did but i hav a g.f do u think its cheating considering it was a dare n in the atmosphere of the party?

 

[ur_inner_child]

You think that because you were at a party and you were pressured, it might possibly make it okay?

When in doubt, ask yourself whether you'd consider it cheating if you were on the otherside of the relationship.

 

[UnIqUe_PrInCeSs]

yes of course.



but were you drunk, troll?

 

[Struts]

i wasnt drunk.. i hadnt had anything at all. but my friends all told me to do it and i hadnt seen my gf in a few hours so thought it was ok..

 

[Legham]

Nahh, thats cheating for sure.. Unless it was just a peck on the cheek. that'd be no biggy i don't reckon.

 

[Struts]

The thing is.. it wasnt just a kiss in the end. she sorta may have lead me away in a bedroom and played with it.

 

[aj_number_10]

nah not cheating
in the atmosphere of a party i dont think so
god u only kissed her lol some ppl need to relax
u did it for right reasons so i dont think ur gf can b mad

 

[Struts]

Yeh some ppl need to relax.. ppl always say mates over dates and i did wat my mates wanted so it was definately the right thing to do

 

[Punctuation M]

The thing is.. it wasnt just a kiss in the end. she sorta may have lead me away in a bedroom and played with it.

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[Legham]

Yeh some ppl need to relax.. ppl always say mates over dates and i did wat my mates wanted so it was definately the right thing to do

Ughh :mad1:.. it's people like you that make parents like mine think that i'm affected by peer pressure.. which im not..

 

[Struts]

man u must be a massive loser.. who the hell talks about peer pressure.. christ

 

[alby]

god damn noob!!!!!!

 

[bubz :D]

The thing is.. it wasnt just a kiss in the end. she sorta may have lead me away in a bedroom and played with it.

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please get out of my forum

 

[Libbster]

man u must be a massive loser.. who the hell talks about peer pressure.. christ

hypocrisy much, when you obviously gave in to peer pressure. dumbass

 

[glitterfairy]

i wasnt drunk.. i hadnt had anything at all. but my friends all told me to do it and i hadnt seen my gf in a few hours so thought it was ok..

Stupid. Fidelity has some kind of "time restriction" based on how many hours it's been since you've seen your partner? That's news to me.

The thing is.. it wasnt just a kiss in the end. she sorta may have lead me away in a bedroom and played with it.

Stupid. You are aware you let this happen - you don't even have the "I was drunk" excuse.

Yeh some ppl need to relax.. ppl always say mates over dates and i did wat my mates wanted so it was definately the right thing to do

I've heard "mates over dates" and "bros over hos" too. Difference being in the interpretation - as in I see it as continuing to value your friend's opinions and friendship whilst you're in a relationship (and respecting both parties unless one becomes overly demanding). Not as in totally disrespecting your partner (obviously you don't give a damn about being faithful and thinking about how she would feel) and choosing instead to follow your friends like a sheep. Classy.



If I was your girlfriend, I'd have dumped you for that attitude alone.


Interpret that as you will.

 

[sando]

she played with ur thing lol.. then its definetly cheating then.. stop being an idiot

 

[townie]

it's cheating cause it was just a stupid dare, MAYBE is everybody was playing spin the bottle and it was just a quick peck that aint cheating, really

 

[trace7988]

Yeh some ppl need to relax.. ppl always say mates over dates and i did wat my mates wanted so it was definately the right thing to do

Hmm well, you may have heard this many times before, but if your mates told you to jump in the fire, would you do it for them?
Just because they're your mates doesnt mean you have to do as they say to please them. Do what you know is right, if you have any sort of doubt about something like that, then just dont do it.

Just something to think about.. How would you feel if the tables were turned and you were the one being cheated on by your girlfriend?
If you didn't care if she cheated, then why are you in the relationship? You obviously have weak feelings for her, or are in the relationship for the wrong reasons.

 

[dieburndie]

This is hilarious.
Especially the lengthy responses.

 

[withoutaface]

Depends if your girlfriend was in a different postcode or not.