well when i think about it, i usually go for first impressions. if their personality doesnt click with mine i know straight away and dont have any interest with them.
i have talked to a guy who i thought was hot. got to know him a bit and was turned off him completely. his good looks did not compensate for his horrible personality.
talked to a guy for 5 months without even knowing what he looked like, got to know him, liked him and when i saw what he looked like it didnt matter to me. it was his personality that won me over. my best friend told me that hes the ugliest guy ever and tells me i could do better. but seriously. how can you do better than a guy who treats a girl right?
who cares about looks. if you have feelings for someone for WHO they are, not WHAT they are then thats something to be proud of. its shows you have values and you are looking for something genuine in your life.
dont be tempted to follow the majority of the crowd. dont give into peer pressure. dont do something because someone told you to do so. if you make your own decisions and make mistakes on your own, its easier to heal yourself if a relationship goes sour. but (if like me) you let people tell you whats right and wrong in your life, then you end up making mistakes that give you pain for a long long time.
remember its YOUR life. not anyone elses. go with what you feel is right.