jcnme said:
ive bin goin out wit this guy for almost 6 months and i feel like i wuld do anything 4 him and i seriously feel like i love him.
He's goin to uni next year at brisbane and i have applied to go there too but i dont think i'l get in.
is it worth moving to brisbane to be wit him or shuld i stay in coffs harbour and have a long distance relationship or just call it quits
No.
As you said yourself you've been going out for just six months - whilst three months is acceptable marrying time in a hollywood movie it doesnt cut it in the real world, especially at our ages.
If you do move you will be essentially investing a huge ammount in an untested relationship. You will be throwing away attending uni and pursuing your own dreams.
When the relationship sours you will be cut off from the support network of your family, you won't really have seperate friends to him. Your lives will be so linked that any break will be much more painful - and ironically living in each others faces like that also increases the odds of aforementioned split.
You're what 18? You've got a whole lot of life to live don't throw it away for a mirrage of happiness.
On a more personal note I have experience in this area my gf and I had been together much longer and it still didn't work and the moving certainly made everything worse when we split. (as a qualifier I did not follow my gf nor she I - we both wanted to do International Relations prior to even knowing each other.
On top of that a mate is currently sleeping in my spare room he and his gf having just split under almost identical situation as you are describing eg she followed him to uni.
Trust me moving is the wrong decision to make. The relationship wont work and then you'll be up shit creek.
I would suggest trying a more relaxed distance relationship see if that works. Possibly plan on transferring unis after first year so that you can be together but not need to through away your dreams.
