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Hey... so holidays are upon us and I pretty much have no one to hang out with. The few friends I have that I socialise with at school are too busy hanging out amongst tem selves and make lame excuses as to why I wasn't invited to social events to include me in anything... I dont have gf and I'm an only child so I can't even hangout with a brother or sister...

I feel incresingly restless and bored shut away at home when both my parents go to work (leave at 6 and come home at like 7 at night)... and whenever i go to places i see groups of people with their friends and this depresses me futher as i dont/cant have the same social interactions.

Anyone else in a similar situation or can give me any idea how to improve my situation ???? Its not like im socially awkward or anything and would happily meet new friends etc but i just dont know where to look

 

[ohexploitable]

Become an hero.

 

[amirite]

Get drunk with people. Open up to them. Hope youve been good enough value to be asked out next time.
Go to a club or something.

 

[kaz1]

Have a bat

Play cricket

live life



or secretly fight crime or something

 

[L]

Hey... so holidays are upon us and I pretty much have no one to hang out with. The few friends I have that I socialise with at school are too busy hanging out amongst tem selves and make lame excuses as to why I wasn't invited to social events to include me in anything... I dont have gf and I'm an only child so I can't even hangout with a brother or sister...

I feel incresingly restless and bored shut away at home when both my parents go to work (leave at 6 and come home at like 7 at night)... and whenever i go to places i see groups of people with their friends and this depresses me futher as i dont/cant have the same social interactions.

Anyone else in a similar situation or can give me any idea how to improve my situation ???? Its not like im socially awkward or anything and would happily meet new friends etc but i just dont know where to look

^^ asian

 

[tlodg]

Hey... so holidays are upon us and I pretty much have no one to hang out with. The few friends I have that I socialise with at school are too busy hanging out amongst tem selves and make lame excuses as to why I wasn't invited to social events to include me in anything... I dont have gf and I'm an only child so I can't even hangout with a brother or sister...

I feel incresingly restless and bored shut away at home when both my parents go to work (leave at 6 and come home at like 7 at night)... and whenever i go to places i see groups of people with their friends and this depresses me futher as i dont/cant have the same social interactions.

Anyone else in a similar situation or can give me any idea how to improve my situation ???? Its not like im socially awkward or anything and would happily meet new friends etc but i just dont know where to look

1. Try to improve your confidence level first. With low confidence, you are likely to attract shit friends who leech on your lack of confidence to make them feel better about themselves.

2. Attend events such as free seminars, take lessons such as dance classes AND talk to people first. Not everyone would be friendly and open, but if they are not friendly/open, it's their loss anyway. Life is too short to be fearing rejection every day.

3. Don't wait for people to invite you to events. Invite them to hang out. Yes, there are some lucky people out there who never need to take the initiative. You're may not be one of them --- so what?

 

[klaris]

get a job, meet people at work and all that

INVITE THEM OUT. it's easily the best thing to do and curbs your boredom

just randomly go out and meet people.

do something to fill the time, void and all that

HAVE FUN

 

[chrisnumber1]

build a friend out of milt cartons, an egg timer and dead body parts!!!

 

[stampede]

Hey... so holidays are upon us and I pretty much have no one to hang out with. The few friends I have that I socialise with at school are too busy hanging out amongst tem selves and make lame excuses as to why I wasn't invited to social events to include me in anything... I dont have gf and I'm an only child so I can't even hangout with a brother or sister...

I feel incresingly restless and bored shut away at home when both my parents go to work (leave at 6 and come home at like 7 at night)... and whenever i go to places i see groups of people with their friends and this depresses me futher as i dont/cant have the same social interactions.

Anyone else in a similar situation or can give me any idea how to improve my situation ???? Its not like im socially awkward or anything and would happily meet new friends etc but i just dont know where to look

where do you live... ill meet you at your train station.. 9pm this thursday, come alone.

 

[amirite]

where do you live... ill meet you at your train station.. 9pm this thursday, come alone.

had to scroll to first post to see if you were OP or not.

 

[stampede]

had to scroll to first post to see if you were OP or not.

uh, i quoted the OP...


lol.


fail.

 

[SilverLining__]

um... um... get a life?

 

[kcqn93]

online games... ... or get a job

 

[klaris]

run around the city with a 'FREE HUGS' sign and act loveable.

 

[Phoenix Fury]

Friends are overrated.

 

[SilverLining__]

sounds like you've done that before Klaris.

 

[zombie omie jay]

silverlining post a pic

 

[SilverLining__]

why??

 

[sydchick]

he wants you to post a pic because he thinks you and klaris are the same person

 

[SilverLining__]

well i am NOT her. She posts shit.