• Congratulations to the Class of 2024 on your results!
    Let us know how you went here
    Got a question about your uni preferences? Ask us here

Need advice on a situation..... (1 Viewer)

W

wanton-wonton

Active Member
Joined
Aug 14, 2004
Messages
1,415
Gender
Male
HSC
2005
james_chappo said:
All i said was that i'm always honest and upfront about stuff. I'm proud of the way I follow a moral code and conduct myself. Did i ever say i was better than anyone else? I don't see how that's arrogance. Since when are you the expert on empathy anyway wanton wonton? Are you trying to say that pride and empathy cannot coexist - because if you are - i think you're a fucking idiot.
Click to expand...
Don't worry, I was just playin' with ya.

HA. HA!
 
james_chappo

james_chappo

Neurotic To The Bone
Joined
Mar 15, 2005
Messages
375
Location
Castle Hill, Sydney
Gender
Male
HSC
2005
No Worries. I get a little over defensive sometimes, to say the least lol. You're not a fucking idiot - sorry about that.
 
W

wanton-wonton

Active Member
Joined
Aug 14, 2004
Messages
1,415
Gender
Male
HSC
2005
james_chappo said:
No Worries. I get a little over defensive sometimes, to say the least lol. You're not a fucking idiot - sorry about that.
Click to expand...
No, it's alright. I am sometimes.
 
W

wanton-wonton

Active Member
Joined
Aug 14, 2004
Messages
1,415
Gender
Male
HSC
2005
james_chappo said:
lol remember back in the day when this thread was about giving advice to some poor guy who got fucked over by a chick?
Click to expand...
Yeah, those days are over. I said it in the beginning that BOS isn't a great place to ask for advise and I was right all along. :)
 
james_chappo

james_chappo

Neurotic To The Bone
Joined
Mar 15, 2005
Messages
375
Location
Castle Hill, Sydney
Gender
Male
HSC
2005
Yeah I mean you'll get a diverse range of opinions but then again its a risk trusting the advice of people you've only ever met over the internet. It'd be much better to just ask a friend.
 
W

wanton-wonton

Active Member
Joined
Aug 14, 2004
Messages
1,415
Gender
Male
HSC
2005
james_chappo said:
Yeah I mean you'll get a diverse range of opinions but then again its a risk trusting the advice of people you've only ever met over the internet. It'd be much better to just ask a friend.
Click to expand...
Maybe that guy doesn't have friends. You haven't thought of that, have you?
 
mmm_sofay

mmm_sofay

time to pretend
Joined
Sep 16, 2004
Messages
1,729
Location
Maggotsville
Gender
Female
HSC
2010
markmooks said:
If you don't call her up and talk to her, you will regret it always. If you actually have feelings for her and don't step outside your fear/pride/ego comfort zones then you'll never know the truth and be eaten away by them forever.

Be open with her, give her room to communicate, don't be bitchy. Express how you felt and try not to lay blame. Ask how she is, how she feels, if she sees a future at any level with you. She might have done something lame to you in the past, people do that for lots of reason, least of all because she was young and inexperienced.

Try it and see. Don't write a letter, go see her, have a coffee, get some one on one time. Take notes with you to remind you of points if you need to.

Good luck.
Click to expand...
are you some sort of L&R advice person?
 
S

soccerfreak

alex
Joined
Jun 11, 2005
Messages
17
Gender
Male
HSC
2006
wanton-wonton said:
Maybe that guy doesn't have friends. You haven't thought of that, have you?
Click to expand...
ummm i do have fds dumbass............forgot to mention that i found out from a fd that she wanted to go with me so thats y i had the guts to ask her............and thats y i think she did fuck around with me...
 
S

soccerfreak

alex
Joined
Jun 11, 2005
Messages
17
Gender
Male
HSC
2006
wanton-wonton said:
Maybe that guy doesn't have friends. You haven't thought of that, have you?
Click to expand...
Do you have any fds??? cause to me it seems like u spend too much time on this forum
 
Dreamerish*~

Dreamerish*~

Love Addict - Nakashima
Joined
Jan 16, 2005
Messages
3,705
Gender
Female
HSC
2005
soccerfreak said:
ummm i do have fds dumbass............forgot to mention that i found out from a fd that she wanted to go with me so thats y i had the guts to ask her............and thats y i think she did fuck around with me...
Click to expand...
i TOLD you to just leave it.
it was last year, she obviously isn't interested enough to be wanting you now.
sorry to put it harshly, but just LEAVE IT! you can find someone else.

you found out from a FRIEND. did you know that heresay can't be used as evidence in court? :rolleyes:
 
S

soccerfreak

alex
Joined
Jun 11, 2005
Messages
17
Gender
Male
HSC
2006
Dreamerish*~ said:
i TOLD you to just leave it.
it was last year, she obviously isn't interested enough to be wanting you now.
sorry to put it harshly, but just LEAVE IT! you can find someone else.

you found out from a FRIEND. did you know that heresay can't be used as evidence in court? :rolleyes:
Click to expand...
OK ill get over it..........happy?........
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Users Who Are Viewing This Thread (Users: 0, Guests: 1)

Top