nice guys finish last (1 Viewer)

[carpetdiem]

this is mainly a question for the girls....

why is it that (in high school mainly) girls dont tend to go for the nice guys and they are always left as 'good friends' i have been wondering ever since my friend has been told by the girls he likes they they want to "just" be friends, i think its unfair and it shows by (alot of girls dating older guys not in school) that they are very immature, but claim they are more mature going out with random old guys with bad reputations.

(this does not apply to every girl, please dont take offence, its not ment to be offencive)

discuss.

 

[cookie.banana]

are you ugly?

 

[Fortify]

are you ugly?

That's a great start.

 

[yer8899]

ugly guys finish last. unless of course you can find an equally heinous female whos standards are extremely low

 

[russs]

be an asshole, it doesn't work either but at least it gives you the illusion that it works better. more flirting that way.

 

[Ryuu-jin-jakka]

Don't worry if you can't find a good relationship in high school, relax, once you go to uni you'll meet and build on (i think that the correct term) more relationship then you could possibly imagine and it might extend further
Just study hard first at school... then socialise as many ppl you want... k there only wat ~ 200 student in each grade and that ~50-100 go to uni so if you add up all the school around the state that alot of ppl... well that how i c it

 

[anyscope]

Yeah... I agree with above. Is your friend harsh on the eyes?

 

[Ryuu-jin-jakka]

friend harsh on the eyes?

???

 

[anyscope]

???

*Is he an ugly fuck

 

[Serius]

Because you are acting like a dipshit instead of a normal guy. Assholes have confidence and they go after what they want, where as you are too busy making nice talk and being friendly...of course t he girl is going to think of you as a friend instead of a potential partner because thats exactly how you act.

 

[44Ronin]

this is mainly a question for the girls....

why is it that (in high school mainly) girls dont tend to go for the nice guys and they are always left as 'good friends'
discuss.

Because the majority of females use them as their emotional bitch or ego boost.

 

[L]

stop being nice and start being shit

 

[Serius]

nice DHV, you really AMOG'd him.

I just googled those and the results made me lol. How you treat women isnt about suduction. There is nothing wrong with being friends with females, but if you are going to give signals that you are their friend, and act like a friend and speak to them like a friend why would you be surprised when they are only interested in you as a friend?

I am shit with women, every time i find one who is actually attracted to me[a rarity] i am so surprised i usually fuck it up, yet even i know that you treat the ones you want to be friends with differenty to the ones you want to fuck. Treat a girl like a friend and you get a friend, simple.

 

[carpetdiem]

well, good point, he isnt excatly a 'looker' but he is average

 

[omnipotent]

This is the unfortunate truth.
It's just not in me to act like an asshole though

 

[SylviaB]

This whole concept is a load of crap.

It's funny how people like you complain about females being superficial, and yet most of the females you refer to (almost certainly) just happen to be physically attractive.

If these chicks are just such bitches, and you're soo against judging people on their appearance instead of their personalities, then why the fuck do you want these girls then for, you dumb hypocrite.

 

[DavidBenGurion]

yer!

i know plenty of assholes

who are perpetually single

they are nawt nice

they are single becauz of GENERALISATIONS

mmmkay

 

[Crestwood's_G]

well...because they are immature...

 

[Teclis]

Someone was saying earlier about confidence...

I'm one of those guys who didn't get left out in highschool... and that's the thing... confidence is attractive. Not arrogance or cockiness, but confidence. The reason why "nice guys" finish last is because they're like "well she likes Billy, so I'll let her be with Billy because that makes her happy, and I'm a soppy pathetic cunt with a dick the size of a pencil stub and testicles the size of peas."...

Ok that may have been a ridiculous, gross-overexageration and generalisation.

But the one thing that a lot of my female friends over the years have told me is that they want to date men, not boys. And generally the "nice guys" in high school come across as kinda pathetic and weak... nice and great to be around, but having the same strength as themselves. And from what I've gathered (I of course may be wrong), while girls don't generally like to be submissive, they do like strength.

My advice to "your friend" is to man up.

 

[Teclis]

Oh and on a side note... when I posted that last comment...

The "ads by google" bar at the top had "Lesbian Dating sites"...

I lol'ed