Please do my survey (2 Viewers)

[shutti darling]

HEY GUYS!

i desperately need pepoles to do my survey on "the affect of the image of perfection on tenagers"

like we have to do this draft for our PIP. All ive done is the intro and my survey. I have handed my survey peoples but i only gt like wt 8 of them back.

anyways bak to this survey i mainly need Anglo Saxons to reply as ive gt most of responses from other ethnic backgrounds

anyways heres my survey i hope its not tooo long

i will really appriciate ur cooperation

1) Age:

2) Gender:
male
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes
No

(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: (specify)

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peers Excelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: (plz specify)

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7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: (plz specify)

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction
Feelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: (plz specify)

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?​

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Yes
No

Please provide a reason for your answer.​

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Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes
No ​

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: (plz specify)

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

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13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

Females
Males
Provide reasons for your answer

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14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

THANK YOU FOR YOUR PARTICIPATION

 

[-may-cat-]

1) Age: 19

2) Gender:
male
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes
No

(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes- i personally want to do my best academically
No
Provide reasons for your answer

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: (specify) not much, perhaps a little disappointment at most, my parents would never punish or interfere in my life because of my choices

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: (plz specify) not to be 'the best student in the class' but to do the best i can academically; to give everything my best shot.
7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: (plz specify)

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized (*pressured) to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself (in my experience)
Can lead to self satisfaction (in my experience)
Feelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: (plz specify)

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?
Yes
No
Please provide a reason for your answer.
-Sometimes. - everyday is different, sometimes life can be challenging and it is difficult to meet the things expected of you, other times it can be easy.

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes
No
- There is no definite yes or no answer, some parents do and some parents don't.
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11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: (plz specify)

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Yes- in terms of my above answer
No
Provide reasons for your answer
13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

Females
Males
Provide reasons for your answer
- I think both males and females have different, but equally pressing expectations.

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Yes
No- this is not to say that males are not responding to expectations as females do, rather that they respond differently (but no less profoundly)
Provide reasons for your answer

 

[laura898]

1) Age: 17

2) Gender: female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes, they pressure me to do as well as i can. i also place pressure on myself in order to force myself to do as well as i aimed

(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: my parents being disappointed in me

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: excelling in academics and achieving personal goals i had set for myself


7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: (plz specify)

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction
Feelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: if the standard is too high, then stress would be inevitable. some pressure is good.


9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?
Yes

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
No

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: to be as good a person as you can reasonably become

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
No
Perfection is unattainable and would be really dull, e.g. lead to depression as your pathetic life has no goal!

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?
Do you mean women pressure me more? If so no. Do you mean women are pressured more than males? If so no. Please define question more effectively.

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the ay females do?
No, equality and all that jazz

 

[gibbo153]

1) Age: 17

2) Gender: Male


3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

No. My parents want what's best for me. Although i'm at a selective high school, and they do want me to do my best, their main aim is for me to be able to get where i want to go in an academic sense. My parents only expect from me what i expect from myself. As it happens i am aiming at a 90-95 UAI, so they attempt to support me and help me get to where i want to be. However, if i was aiming at a lower UAI course, then their expectations of me would reflect that, so its not a case of expecting high marks for the sake of it.

However, I'm a Christian and so are my parents, so they would hope that i would be trying to live in a Godly way, including at school; they don't like it if i'm a prick to my teachers =]

I've never been pushed to excel at sport, only to do what i enjoy.


7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?

To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other:

All of the above, varying on a case by case basis.


8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Again it varies. Some children benefit from such an environment, others are overwhelmed by such expectations, which can cause problems like lack of confidence/self-esteem/a feeling of worth.

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?


No. Prioritising what is of real value to me makes it easier to fulfill expectations.

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?

Both in different cases.
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11) What is your definition of “perfect?”


impossible to accurately define in a social sense.


12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"

No.


13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

There are different expectations on both.

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Too hard to answer without generalising inaccurately

 

[x.christina]

1) Age: 17

2) Gender:

female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes


(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes I do because I do not like failing and I hate disappointing people, especially my parents as they have raised me well so by fullfilling expectations is like giving something back to them

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Disappointment from parents

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?

Being one of the top students
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra Fulfilling certain family duties


7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
(i believe all three of these)

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction
Feelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: (plz specify)

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?​

Yes
No

Please provide a reason for your answer.

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes
No ​

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Not really as people can appear as being perfect but them themselves do not tthink that they are. People do not percieve themselves as being perfect

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?
Both really, depening on things such as first-born, pressure to to well from family (like cousins etc)

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Not very sure sorry

 

[Miss Code]

HEY GUYS!

i desperately need pepoles to do my survey on "the affect of the image of perfection on tenagers"

like we have to do this draft for our PIP. All ive done is the intro and my survey. I have handed my survey peoples but i only gt like wt 8 of them back.

anyways bak to this survey i mainly need Anglo Saxons to reply as ive gt most of responses from other ethnic backgrounds

anyways heres my survey i hope its not tooo long

i will really appriciate ur cooperation

1) Age: 17

2) Gender:
male
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes
No

(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes because i wish to do well with school, and my life
No
Provide reasons for your answer

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: They don't punish me or anythng, they feel bad their expectations are just for me to do well and such, not forced on me.


6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: To always do the best that i can achieve.


7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: (plz specify)


8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction
Feelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: (plz specify)

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?​

Yes
No I do the best that i can, its all that i can do

Please provide a reason for your answer.​

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?

Yes
No ​

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: pefect is just another made up word, how can someone be right all the time?

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer
No one is "perfect"

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

Females
Males
Both, it depends on the individuals themselves
Provide reasons for your answer

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

THANK YOU FOR YOUR PARTICIPATION



Good luck

 

[Brontecat]

1) Age: 16

2) Gender:
male
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes
No

(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer
Personally i rlly dislike dissapointing people and i know that not fulfilling these expectations result in dissapointing others so i prefer to fulfil them. As a secondary reason i would have to admit that their expectation result in making me a better person or give me a better chance in life.

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: (specify)

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: (plz specify)
7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: (plz specify)

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction
Feelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: (plz specify)

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?​

Yes
No

Please provide a reason for your answer. Unfortunately im one of those people who actually has higher expectations for myself than my parents do, however, my parents dissapointment in my failure is often much more than failure in myself.​

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes
No ​

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: (plz specify)

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer
Everyone has a slightly different perspective on the word perfect so its realistic top think that some people achieve their idea of perfect.
13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

Females
Males
Provide reasons for your answer
No, i think individual cases have different factors rather than gender, in my family age seems to be the greater factor.
14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer
not sure.

 

[duckcowhybrid]

1) Age: 15

2) Gender:
male


3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes

Provide reasons for your answer: I'm not a dipshit. I have my own expectations to fulfill that exceed my parents'.

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
All of them

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?

Being the top student in the class
I'm useless at anything else.

7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?

To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: Both of the above.

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction

I push myself harder.

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?

No
Please provide a reason for your answer: I'm not a dickhead that can't cope with pressure.

Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes


11) What is your definition of “perfect?”

To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: I've seen all of them and believe all of them to be ideas of perfectionists.

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
No
Provide reasons for your answer: You can be a perfectionist, but you will never be perfect.

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

Females

Provide reasons for your answer: They're supposed to be hot as well.

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?

No

Provide reasons for your answer: I'm hot.

 

[terese223]

1) Age:
17
2) Gender:
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?
no

4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: (specify)

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: (plz specify)
7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Feelings of inferiority

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?
Yes

I am a perefectionist, i strive to achieve the best, nothing is every stisfactory enough for me, I always think I could of done better, like, if theres an essay and I get 19/20 I always think, if I had of spent a bit extra time on it I would of got 20! Iam also very competitive, I always feel the need to strive above others.

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Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
No

I believe the word "perfect" to mean to b the best at everything, but in reality there probably isnt one person in the world who is fantastic at art, music, drama, sport as well as good at science, maths and who also has the perfect "image"- I find that people who value intellect above all usually dont worry too much about their appearence

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?

Females​

Females seem to worry more I guess.... Many Females also tend to desire that 'perfect appearance more than a lot of males do.

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
No

Although this doesnt apply to all males; I find that females tend to want to achieve the expectations of others more than males do, perhaps this is because of the pressures of society on females of which dont effect or influence males as much.


I hope that was some help, sorry if my answers arent specific enough..... good luck with ur PIP and the HSC!!!! oh yeh, I am Australian by the way.​

 

[imsopostmodern]

1) Age: 18

2) Gender:
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes

4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes - many of these expectations are in line of what i want from myself anyway.

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?


Other: Disappointment. facing disappointed parents aint exactly a walk in the park.


6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: maintaining good relationships with the family and keeping a positive attitude.


7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child


8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfaction

Other: mostly such expectations, when fulfilled, lead to a positive attitude of self. however, if the expectations are unrealistic and lead to constant failure, the person will likely have feelings of inferiority and negative self perceptions.

9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?​

No - the expectations others have of me, and i have of me, are realistic. they can be challenging, but achievable.

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Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?

Yes
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11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards

other: i believe self happiness is also very important.

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Yes - it depends on their own standards and expectations

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?


i personally cant particularly guage this seeing as i come from a family with only female children and i cant compare as to the expectations of males.

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?

refer to above answer

 

[want2beasenior]

1) Age: 16

2) Gender:
male
female

3) Parents tend to have expectations from their children. These certain expectations may include performing well academically, behaving appropriately, excelling in sports etc. Are you expected to fulfill certain expectations from parents?

Yes
No

(If your answer is “no” please go to question 7)


4) Do you personally wish to fulfill such expectations?

Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

5) What is the likely result of not satisfying the expectations from parents?

Getting grounded
Feelings of lowliness
Anger amongst parents
Other: (specify)

6) What sort of expectations are you expected to fulfill?
Being the top student in the class
Excelling in sports
Creating the “perfect” image amongst society, family or peersExcelling in extra curriculum activities
Fulfilling certain family duties
Other: (plz specify)

7) Why do parents tend to have such expectations?
To teach teens to take up responsibility
To make sure their children have a bright future
To show people the way in which they have bought up their child
Other: (plz specify)

8) What do you believe are the likely affects of being pressurized to fulfill these expectations?

Contributing to a positive image towards yourself
Can lead to self satisfactionFeelings of inferiority
Emotionally unhealthy image of themselves
Other: (plz specify)


9) Do you struggle to meet the expectations of society, friends,family, or even your own?
Yes
No

Please provide a reason for your answer.
Do you believe parents are pressurizing their children to become their “perfect” child?
Yes
No
neither: every parent is different and i think that all round, they just want what is best for their child

11) What is your definition of “perfect?”
To be the best at everything
To be socially active
When someone enjoys their life and lives by their standards
When someone does everything that I expected of them but is still unhappy
To show off to others that you can excel at everything
Other: (plz specify)

12) Is it possible for an individual to be “perfect?"
Yes: it depends how hard they are willing to work/ if they know what they want
No
Provide reasons for your answer

13) Do you think there are more expectations from females than males?
Females
Males
Equal: depends on parents and child
Provide reasons for your answer

14) Do you think that males are not responding to such expectations the way females do?
Yes
No
Provide reasons for your answer

see above