1. I want a man who has an active social life outside of me. I would not mind if he sometimes didn’t have time for me.
yer....active life is ok..but not too active, shud have time, like skeeta said, wtf is the point if they dont spend time with you?
2. I want a man who will provide for me and take care of me. I do not want to be the breadwinner.
doesnt matter, as long as they both have stable jobs, or careers then yeah,even if the woman decided 2 b a housewife. but women should know how to take care of themselves if the man suddenly leaves or something happens, reality is important, each person should have something backed up to support themselves.
3. It is important to me that the man I am with makes an effort to keep the romance in our relationship.
yea
I want a man who values my opinions and what I have to say. I want him to take me seriously and trust me to make important decisions.
yea
5. I would not want a man to change for me nor should he want me to change for him. I want him to be himself and I would want him to love me for myself.
well nobody can completely change a person anyway, that's why break ups and things happen when it is attempted. if people wanna sacrifice things for their partner, then it's ok, but they have to 'want' to do it, if they dont and it doesnt come from within then yeah i wouldnt want it anyway cos it would end up in a troulbled relationship imo.
6. I want a man who is open and honest and who will tell me things like it is. I would not like him to sugarcoat anything or to lie- I want the truth, even if it will hurt me.
yea
7. It’s important to me that the man I am with or that a man I am interested in has the same religious and political beliefs as I do.
yea. my relationshp is interracial so this one i think usually would be a problem for people like i, but i'm not religious so who cares XD.
8. A man needs to be a gentleman. He should have good manners and be chivalrous.
100 % agreed.
9. It is important that the man I am with takes good care if himself. I would want him to maintain a healthy weight and keep himself well-groomed. If he is sick, I would not want him to throw a fit about seeing a doctor.
health is first. he can't not see a doctor cos i will become one hahahaaa. grooming part all fake, i mean well presented is important, but not in the terms of put 100 layers of gell in your hair or totally formal. the important factor imo is to dress according to where you are going to...if you're home, who cares what he wears, if he's going out in daytime, who cares again, restuarant...bit formal, parents...bit formal again.
10. The best kind of man....
options i considered in bold:
has not had many or any sexual experiences with other women ~ yeep. - don't tell me good luck aswell cos i already hav it XD
wants children ~ this is out of the way for ppl when they are young, it doesnt matter, but people tend to change minds as they get older so the answer is quite unclear.
is religious ~ no, but morals are important to me.
is intelligent and well educated ~ yep
can easily talk about his feelings ~ yep
treats me with respect and courtesy ~ yep
would be my friend as well as my lover ~ yep...my partner is my best friend. wudnt hav it any other way.....a question....FRIEND:a person you know well and regard with affection and trust. how the fk is a relationship meant to be a relationship if your partner is not your friend....or how the hell is your parnter meant to be your partner if they are not your friend? lol....i just dnt see the point of this question....unless ppl call a best man a one night stand with some random :S
