She has a boyfriend, I have a girlfriend (1 Viewer)

[Paradox.101]

What would you guys do, if you found someone that you instantly bonded with yet she has boyfriend and you have a girlfriend, and you know she has something for you? ...or even if she didn't like you, would you guys approach her? I'm talking being deeply in love.

 

[scaredytiger]

instant bonding does not a deep love make.

 

[black_kat_meow]

instant bonding does not a deep love make.

This.


It's lust, you idiot. (at OP, not the gorgeous scaredy)

 

[yer8899]

can i make it anymore obvious?

 

[Paradox.101]

This.


It's lust, you idiot. (at OP, not the gorgeous scaredy)

Lust is sexual desire right? Physical attraction?
When I was referring to 'bonding' I meant attracted to her personality and appearance.

 

[Kwayera]

Lust is sexual desire right? Physical attraction?
When I was referring to 'bonding' I meant attracted to her personality and appearance.

Sure you are.

 

[black_kat_meow]

which =/= being deeply in love

 

[Sarebs]

I suggest... don't go there. It sounds like it could turn into one big mess, that could hurt a lot of people.

 

[scaredytiger]

Lust is sexual desire right? Physical attraction?
When I was referring to 'bonding' I meant attracted to her personality and appearance.

You might find her fun to be around, but you're not in love.

 

[Teclis]

Grow up and realise that a relationship that lasts is based on more than liking personality...

 

[hermand]

What would you guys do, if you found someone that you instantly bonded with yet she has boyfriend and you have a girlfriend, and you know she has something for you? ...or even if she didn't like you, would you guys approach her? I'm talking being deeply in love.

love takes time.

love at first sight does not exist.

in relation to your question, i agree with Sarebs, it will just turn into one big mess. you could hurt a lot of people for nothing in the end.

 

[scaredytiger]

you guys probably arent even compatible, regardless of your feelings.

 

[Paradox.101]

Sure you are.

What makes you think otherwise? Is it cause the majority of males are materialistic nowadays? I hate people that are so judgemental. And black kat, you seem so self-righteous. I was wondering what you guys would do in a situation like this, I didn't even mention that it had anything to do with me, besides the use of first person in the thead title. Sorry if I seem overly emotional.

 

[tallkid34]

What would you guys do, if you found someone that you instantly bonded with yet she has boyfriend and you have a girlfriend, and you know she has something for you? ...or even if she didn't like you, would you guys approach her? I'm talking being deeply in love.

In other words, how can I make myself not feel any guilt whatsoever for approaching some random girl who looked at me like she wanted it.

 

[Kwayera]

What makes you think otherwise? Is it cause the majority of males are materialistic nowadays? I hate people that are so judgemental. And black kat, you seem so self-righteous. I was wondering what you guys would do in a situation like this, I didn't even mention that it had anything to do with me, besides the use of first person in the thead title. Sorry if I seem overly emotional.

"Love at first sight" is hormones and lust. Is that really worth sacrificing for?

 

[timw7845]

[Eminem:]
I know what you wanna hear...
'Cuz I know you want me baby I think I want you too...

[Dina Rea:]
I think I love you baby...

[Eminem:]
I think I love you too...
I'm here to save you girl,
Come be in shady's world,
I wanna grow together,
Let's let our love unfurl.
You know you want me baby,
You know I want you too,
They call me Superman,
I'm here to rescue you,
I wanna save you girl,
come be in Shady's world...

 

[ashllis92]

Were not idiots, we know that it's you in the situation. Just chill out and take some (read heaps) time to get to know her really well... she might not turn out as good as you first thought but then again, she just might

 

[AlleyCat]

i dont know, i still maintain that i fell in love with my current boyfriend as soon as i met him.

i think if you like her and she likes you then you should give it a try, its not like you're both married.
if you're considering it, you probably arent too keen on your current girlfriend anyway.

but whatever, thats just my opinion.

 

[throwaway]

punch her in the cunt

 

[dux&src]

punch her in the cunt

falcon punch!

But no seriously, OP don't do it.