Sex is a wonderful and intimate way to connect with someone i agree. Id just hate to do it with the wrong person! All those memories later! I want that intimacy , i really do. But i only want it with one man i suppose maybe that is why some young women put such value on waiting.ur_inner_child said:It's a way to connect with someone. And really express love for them. Your relationship becomes so much more bigger and better with sex.
Also yes you've seen the other side, so learn from that. You just need to be level headed and have good character judgement. Don't leap into relationships with just any guy. Really get to know someone first. Your friends were probably really young and naive.
Again read my post about marriage.
About my friends , yes some were young & naiive. Others werent though