taking it too the next level? (1 Viewer)

[metalinjection]

rightio.

So my gf and i get intimate when we can, we've been officially been going out for a week, but have a history and we breifly dated last year aswell. but i mean we try and get together for some 'personal time' every weekend.

Each time, we slightly go a little further, like where our hands go etc etc.

Anyway, how do we know if we are ready to go to the next level. we are both virgins and never been further with anyone else previously.

She is also unsure about how to go with it. btw im talking handjobs here (i think?).

Her hand has gone down in that vicinity, but doesnt really know what to do next, i dont really know either except what they do in pornos.

advice? tips? anything?

 

[shortie_689]

oi u with the 10 posts... NOT COOL
Sweety just go with the flow if its meant to happen it will...
an encouraging word could help then again it could totally ruin the moment...
You really have to judge the situation and do what you think is right...

 

[Serius]

are u one of brogans spam accounts to raise his e-morale?

handjobs are shit skip that part, feel her up a bit if u can get away with it, the next step should be head, if u dont know what she should be doing u shouldnt be going this far anyways

then bang her.

 

[mr_brightside]

As Serius said...skip handies...if she doesnt have a clue what shes doing, it wont feel great at all.

Just take it has it comes (teeehehehe) and dont try to be experienced when your not. Be slow and say something if you dont like whats going on.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

rightio.

So my gf and i get intimate when we can, we've been officially been going out for a week, but have a history and we breifly dated last year aswell. but i mean we try and get together for some 'personal time' every weekend.

Each time, we slightly go a little further, like where our hands go etc etc.

Anyway, how do we know if we are ready to go to the next level. we are both virgins and never been further with anyone else previously.

She is also unsure about how to go with it. btw im talking handjobs here (i think?).

Her hand has gone down in that vicinity, but doesnt really know what to do next, i dont really know either except what they do in pornos.

advice? tips? anything?

ok do you want to go to the next level?
if things/i mean your hands tend to get closer and more intimate wandering places each time, that doesnt mean on your next couple of times you see eachother yours going to have sex! it might stay at the same rate for a while until you both decide that you wanna go further, but for now dont rush into things
reason being, its only been offically one week
you both (well your girlfriend) seems a been inexperienced when her hand wanders down there
i know first time giving a handy i was like woah what do i do, how fast, hard do i pull etc etc, and if she hasnt done it either she is definately thinking the same thing!
dont make her feel uncomfortable about it, but help her out, when her hand gets down there (her own will) then you could gentle lead her hand and help her pull your dick lol, so then she gets an idea how to do it, how you like it
and when your hand goes down in her 'area' you could give it a little rub and whatever else, so she will get the idea what you are doing to her, is similar to the way she is going to approach your pink bits

master this first, before you go poking your bits into eachother!
make you sure talk about it tho, how do you know she isnt touching your penis because she deosnt want to have sex with you!
you gotta talk about it.. but dont rush into the sex talk 1 week into the relationship she will think that is all your after

 

[alby]

take it slow. go at your own pace. WHEN you BOTH feel ready to go down there, guide eachother (she'll probably be touching you first by the sounds of things). enjoy yourself. dont do anything you dont want to do. make sure you talk about it (even just a sentance or so, not necessarily a long d&m).

 

[santaslayer]

u should already master handjobs. telling her to do it would fuck everything up.

 

[azzie]

the first time you do sexual stuff is gonna be shit. especially if you're the 15 year old kid i expect you are.

so just get it done and over with.

 

[Serius]

who says? if your a girl maybe then i can see the logic there

but guys pretty much just enjoy sex

 

[withoutaface]

the first time you do sexual stuff is gonna be shit.

Speak for yourself, dear.

 

[azzie]

Speak for yourself, dear.

you cannot tell me the first time you had sex was good! nobody has good sex first time around.

 

[withoutaface]

you cannot tell me the first time you had sex was good! nobody has good sex first time around.

Ok, well depends on how you define sex. But after some fumbles involving contraception (won't post full details here) we came back a week later and it was unbelievably awesome, for both involved.

 

[bernz]

Ok, well depends on how you define sex. But after some fumbles involving contraception (won't post full details here) we came back a week later and it was unbelievably awesome, for both involved.

I remember those fumbles with contraception on my first time... And to think how young, naive and paranoid I was back then... Ah, the good old days...

But you gotta admit though, sex gets better the more experienced you (and your partner) are. I'm totally off topic.

Here's my two cents:

DON'T:
-Force a girl into doing something if she doesn't want to do it... ever -- NO MEANS NO.
-Rush to conclusions if she isn't ready yet, there's a reason for everything. If you love her, work through it.
-Assume that just because you're having more and more fun exploring every day, you'll have sex in the near future.
-Stress about it.
-Take my signature seriously.

DO:
-Talk with her both about how you feel and also about contraception etc.
-Take your time in the long run as well as during the main event... foreplay is good for both of you (if you decide to have sex without lubrication or barrier protection and she isn't wet, it will be painful for both fo you... at least, this is what i've read).
-Enjoy yourself even if you don't end up having sex. You're young and you're with a girl you like and you sometimes get a bit hot and bothered together. 'nuf said.
And the biggest DO of all
-what feels right for both of you.

 

[ogmzergrush]

Casmira on another account, or is there more than one person around who can't tell the difference between "to" and "too"? :/

Re: original post, I really hope this is a joke...

 

[Casmira]

Casmira on another account, or is there more than one person around who can't tell the difference between "to" and "too"? :/

Re: original post, I really hope this is a joke...

oh i sincerely cant tell the difference between too and to, i just use it whenever it sounds nicer

 

[MiuMiu]

You're better off feeling her through her pants first, cos she can stop you if she wants. And then if she starts to sound as though shes enjoying it, unzip and give her a little rub down there.

Seriously though, it just ends up coming naturally.

 

[minushuman]

Ahahahahahaha, Gold!

 

[minushuman]

rightio.

So my gf and i get intimate when we can, we've been officially been going out for a week, but have a history and we breifly dated last year aswell. but i mean we try and get together for some 'personal time' every weekend.

Each time, we slightly go a little further, like where our hands go etc etc.

Anyway, how do we know if we are ready to go to the next level. we are both virgins and never been further with anyone else previously.

She is also unsure about how to go with it. btw im talking handjobs here (i think?).

Her hand has gone down in that vicinity, but doesnt really know what to do next, i dont really know either except what they do in pornos.

advice? tips? anything?

In almost all certainly she'll be much more comfortable with helping you out first, rather then letting you give her hand/head.

Basically after you start getting a little heavy and she starts touching in the vicinity of your croutch then place your hand on top of hers and guide it to your undoubtedly small erection in your pants and move her hand in a stroking motion... but only for a moment. Let go of her hand and she should continue in that fashion as long as you give her slight encouragment. Soon enough she'll pop your button and fly and stick her hand down there aimlessly. Again give her a little guidance with your own hand until she's gripping your tiny little penis and stroking it in a pleasing fashion.

You've seen porn so you should know exactly what to do (use some common sense though, go down on her lovingly rather then fast and sloppily, don't stick anything in her ass; that includes fingers, tounges and penis) and where everything is.

Hopefully if you're in the wrong spot she'll do what you have done and shift your hand over a little.

The first time you go down on her she'll probably be reluctant to let you. Reassure her that you love her, kiss her again, and then kiss all the way down her body starting at the neck, finishing at her inner thighs. Then start the magic. After you've gone down on her she'll be more inclined to do it to you later, or the next time. Just be considerate and tell her when you're coming so she can decide where she wants to take your insignificant pissant amount of ejaculate.

 

[vanush]

i sure hope noone gets off on this thread!


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