okay i'll refrain from calling you an arseclown
..but i'm shocked you even have to ask what a difference between a reality show is, and a drama series (which is what secret life is)
secondly, no, televiision was originally created for people to escape reality and to have a bit of escape from life. why the cunt would it be more interesting to watch a reality tv program like big brother and the real cancun, you might as well just buy a lot of alocohol and go down to the local brothel and party it up