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What are you attracted to? (2 Viewers)
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LazyBoy
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primarily personality. i wont date a girl unless shes intelligent, a little eccentric. and we have things in common an a chemsitry. With that said i still need to be attracted to the girl for there to be a chemistry, but im attracted to anglo saxon looking girls, the girls who look like a 'bring home to mummy' girl if you know what i mean.
MaryJane
Extraordinary Machine
I'm sure people will respond on here saying 'personality', but lets be honest with ourselves here! The first thing you notice about someone is their appearance, thus looks. Whether you're initially attracted to someone will determine whether you will pursue a friendship, thus discover their personality. The only way someone could legitimatly say personality is if they were blind. Or desperate (a point raised just then by my father!).
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LazyBoy
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nope i know a blind guy he is really shallow, we were doing something for the alp during the elections. Afterwards we were having a beer and he goes "that girl you were talking to sounded really hot... you know big tits nice figure...was she?"
Im shallow, everyone is shallow. It just depends on how shallow you are.
Im shallow, everyone is shallow. It just depends on how shallow you are.
spin spin sugar
it's gotta be big
yeah, looks DO matter to some extent cos there has to be some kind of initial attraction... even if someones just got really nice eyes, or whatever - theres gotta be something. so looks & personality count
MaryJane
Extraordinary Machine
Ah, but the mere fact that you'd get to know him as long as you werent "revolted by the sight of him" shows that there would be some degree of physical attraction.gloria_b said:
(trust me, I do psych!)
spin spin sugar
it's gotta be big
i strongly doubt thats true... no one has neither!gloria_b said:Oh damn...all hope is lost for me!! I have neither
LazyBoy
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i know guys who arnt interested in a girls personality. they cant have girls for friends or anything. When im looking for a girl (which is always lol) ill go up to a girl if im attracted to them, so they gotta be thin enough. nice hair, dress nice sorta thing. The difference between a friend and a partner is chemsitry. Strictly a hormonal thing, that chemsitry is a response to your attraction. Thus looks are important.
After first impressions and chemistry is over and done with, the only thing that will maintain a relationship is personaliyt. therefore personality is just as important for maintenance of the relationship.
After first impressions and chemistry is over and done with, the only thing that will maintain a relationship is personaliyt. therefore personality is just as important for maintenance of the relationship.
LazyBoy
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Lol and mostly they will remain single unless they have enough dumb luck to fall into a relationship.gloria_b said:
spin spin sugar
it's gotta be big
dont ever even consider changing yourself just to be liked! you should be whatever is true to your personality, it doesnt matter what you are, theres always gonna be someone out there who doesnt like you, and if you just be yourself youre going to meet the right person anyway, AND have deeper feelings... you'll never have a successful relationship if you pretend to be something youre not.
you know youve got good features .. both looks and personality-wise.... start thinking of them more , rather than bagging on yourself
you know youve got good features .. both looks and personality-wise.... start thinking of them more , rather than bagging on yourself
Benny_
Elementary Penguin
I'm not overly pick about either, but I'd rather if they weren't dull as a board or as ugly (or butch) as Amelie Mauresmo.
LazyBoy
Member
gloria you right. i cant stand girls who call themselfs ugly or fat. its the worst personality trait a girl can have.
spin spin sugar
it's gotta be big
well get used to it cos thats like 99.9% of girls ive ever met in like my whole life.LazyBoy said:
Mostly they are fishing for compliments but clearly i am not because i am online so no one knows who i am or what i look like. I am just over the looks thing, why would anyone want to starve themselves so they look like a stick? Or put chemicals on their faces?LazyBoy said:
LazyBoy
Member
yeah im well aware why most of them do it. those girls i play along.. its still unnatractive but yeah. But the girls who genuinely beleive it i dont like. Girls like guys with confidence, it goes the other way too i guess.